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俺也在这里占块地吧！
本来是在MSN里写Blog的，可是用手机连本本上网进不了Space of MSN，不支持Aspx格式吧，而这里是手机上网最好的地方，省流量就
是省银子，呵呵。。。本来俺银子就不多，当然得省着点用。
下面把我在MSN里的那篇转过来，
让整个帖子完整些。
又：LP，如果你从这篇帖子看起的话，一定要注意啊，这篇帖子里的语气并不是很好，因为我当时心情也不是很好，所以你看的时候要注意不要生气啊，你慢慢看下去，如果要生气，等下面的帖子都看完了再生气好不好？一定答应我，全看完了之后再说，行不？
今天是六一国际儿童节，大家节日快乐！
真想象孩子一样无忧无虑啊，可是大人的世界不是这么美好的。
昨晚跟LP话不投机，
又失眠了。
同床异梦，
那也得睡得着的话才行啊，
躺在LP身边特别别扭，
心里很是郁闷。
我往那山沟望一望呀，望一望呀，
我心里闷得慌啊。（《家有九凤》里的插曲）
我真的是闷得慌。。。
我收拾了东西，
准备回自己家里睡去。
（忘记交待一句了，
开始俺是在丈母娘家里）
LP问你这是干什么，
我说，
我睡不着，
在这里吵到你，
我回自个儿家去。
LP嘟啷了一句什么就没管我了。
我没听清，
估计是说我神经。
于是乎，
在今天凌晨零点四十，
我离开了丈母娘家，
开着自己的破QQ，
回JA去。
在路上，
特意找了个宽阔的笔直的道，
油门直踩下去，
速度到了120码。
QQ有点吃不消，
在高速上开120码真没啥感觉，
可这种路上，
感觉不安全。
老老实实用经济时速60码跑回JA。
路上有个人在收音机里讲述他的故事，
然后主持人说，
Sorry，
时间不够，
不能让他再详细讲下去。
然后感叹，
这些人是这样的需要找人倾诉，
应该在平常就多和人交流，
不要到要爆发时才想到找人倾诉。
俺想，
找谁去倾诉？
跟谁也不能说。
能说就好了，
就是不能说。
回到家就看电视，
上网，
就是不睡觉。
后来一看5点了，
不睡不行了，
身体已经要睡了，
结结实实地睡吧。
这会子该没啥失眠的困扰了，呵呵。。。
早上也没让我好过，
一早一同事打电话来说他电脑有问题，
能不能帮他看一下，
晕，
我又不是修电脑的，
我说，
我实在起不来，
我才睡着没多久呢。
把这事给推掉了。。。
可人一醒吧，
就睡不着了，
半睡半醒之间，
LP又打电话来了，
说今天不是说要带宝宝出去玩吗？
你几时回来？
我说就回来了。
起来冲了个凉，
清醒一下，
太疲劳了，
才睡三个钟头左右。
开车回到JAX，
回到了我的母校。
校园里正在庆祝六一儿童节，
在搞文艺汇演。
找到丈母娘和宝宝，
看完汇演就回家了。
回去就睡，
中午起来吃了饭，
下午继续睡。
睡醒了就想，
离婚。
其实这个字眼想想都可怕。
这话说出去了，
就象刀一样，
是很伤人的。
而且后遗症太可怕了，
怎么说呢，
基本没有回头的机会，
即使回头，
也象打烂的瓷器，
永远有着难看的缝。
但我左思右想，
这样的日子还能过得下去吗？
拖得越久，
伤害越深。
吃过晚饭，
我把我父母接了过来，
没告诉他们是怎么回事，
只说六一节，
接他们来看宝宝。
等到老丈人买烟回来，
我把LP也叫出来，
我说，
正好四位老人都在，
我有事要说。
我给四位老人跪下了，
说道，
我要离婚。
这一下子炸开了锅，
大家都懵了。
然后就是争吵，训骂，劝阻，
乱作一团。
丈母娘一下子火了，
我早就想到会这样。
但让我想不到的是，
她居然突然打起我LP来，
边打边骂，
你个死女，
叫你早点回来你不回，
错过了多少好姻缘。
意思是说看现在倒好，
瞎了眼嫁了个这样的负心郞。
我挡住她，护住了我LP，
我说，
妈，
你气不过你打我好了，
不要打我LP。
丈母娘说，
不要叫我妈，
你要离婚，
现在写起诉书去。
Kao，
又不是和你离婚，
你起什么哄啊，
生怕我俩不离是吧？
我LP也来劲了，
说，
现在就把离婚协议写好，
我马上签字。
狂晕啊我。。。
我说，
要不你写？
我LP说，
又不是我说要离，
凭什么我写？
晕，
谁写不一样吗？
这也争？
再说你写不是可以多保护自己一点吗？
这点维权意识都没有。
不过还好了，
比丈母娘强些，
好歹没把离婚协议说成起诉书。
算了算了，
现场一团糟，
这里是呆不下去了。
回JA去吧。
老人们都担心我情绪激动，
不宜开车，
我其实也没啥激动的，
又不是见毛主席，
有啥好激动的，
吵架嘛，
离开现场就没事了，
何况也不是吵架。
我有时都觉得自己是不是太冷血了。
老丈人还是好些，
说，
要走就走吧，
路上小心点，
下雨天，开慢点，
到了打个电话报个平安。
到了家，
打过电话报过平安，
父母做我的思想工作，
我把事情也讲了些，
然后把态度也表明了，
如果LP愿意继续和我过，
我也同意，
如果她不愿意我也没辙。
父母说，
凡事看在宝宝的面上，
不要太计较，
总的一句话，
协议什么的不许写，
你们的事慢慢谈。
大家都希望你们好好过日子。
大家？
估计至少有一个人不会这么希望，
那就是我丈母娘，
看她那样子，
以前逢人就夸自己有个好女婿，
现在该是恨死我了。
她要是还希望我和她女儿过才怪了，
要是拆掉十座庙，才能拆散我们的话，
她现在一定扛着锄头去拆庙去了。
说实话，
我丈母娘人还是挺好的，
可坏事的也是她。
当初她把女儿交给我，
要我好好照顾她女儿，
可实际上呢，
她根本就没有交给我的意思。
我说是说讨了个LP，
可我根本不象成了个家。
她就一直没放过手，
我跟她抢了三年，
我觉得，
我失败了。
而且，
我也累了，
不想再抢了。
说起来也好笑，
当初我看上我LP，
丈母娘也起了不少作用，
我觉得母亲又聪明又善良又能干，
女儿也差不到哪去。
现在我想离婚，
丈母娘也是功不可没。
详情就不说了，
我也累了，
明天还要上班呢，
就到这里吧。
在这儿童节的晚上，
闹了离婚这样一幕剧。
人间悲剧啊。
我可怜的宝宝啊，
你父母正面临一场极大的灾难。
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I'll also occupy a spot here!
Originally, I was writing a blog in MSN, but when I used my phone to connect to the laptop to access the MSN Space, I couldn't get in. Maybe it doesn't support the Aspx format. And here is the best place to access the internet with a phone; saving data traffic is saving money, heh heh... Originally, I didn't have much money, so of course I have to be frugal.
Now I'll transfer the post I had in MSN over, to make the whole thread complete.
Also: LP, if you start reading from this post, you must pay attention! The tone in this post isn't very good because I was in a bad mood at that time, so when you read it, be careful not to get angry. You take your time to read it, and if you get angry, wait until you've read all the subsequent posts before getting angry, okay? You must promise me to read everything through first, okay?
Today is International Children's Day, everyone has a happy holiday!
I really want to be as carefree as a child, but the adult world isn't so beautiful.
Last night, I had a disagreement with LP,
and I couldn't fall asleep again.
Even if we're in the same bed but with different minds,
we should still be able to fall asleep.
Lying next to LP was especially awkward,
and I was really depressed.
I look at that mountain valley, look, look,
I'm really feeling stuffy. ("A插曲 from "Nine Daughters in the Family")
I'm really feeling stuffy...
I packed my things,
and was going to sleep at my own place.
(Oh, I forgot to mention,
originally I was at my mother-in-law's place)
LP asked what I was doing,
I said,
I couldn't sleep,
and here I was disturbing you,
so I'm going back to my own place.
LP mumbled something and then left me alone.
I didn't hear clearly,
I guess she said I was being neurotic.
So,
at 0:40 in the early morning of today,
I left my mother-in-law's place,
driving my broken QQ,
going back to JA.
On the way,
I specifically found a wide and straight road,
stepped on the gas pedal all the way,
and reached a speed of 120 km/h.
The QQ was a bit struggling,
driving at 120 km/h on the highway doesn't feel like much,
but on this kind of road,
it didn't feel safe.
I honestly drove back to JA at the economical speed of 60 km/h.
There was someone on the radio telling his story on the way,
then the host said,
Sorry,
there's not enough time, can't let him talk in detail anymore.
Then he sighed,
these people need someone to talk to so much,
they should communicate with people more usually,
don't wait until it's about to explode to think of finding someone to talk to.
I thought,
Who can I talk to?
I can't talk to anyone.
If I could talk, that would be fine, but I just can't.
When I got home, I watched TV and surfed the internet, just not sleeping.
Then I looked and it was 5 o'clock,
I had to sleep,
my body was already wanting to sleep,
so I had a solid sleep.
Now there shouldn't be any insomnia troubles, heh heh...
The morning didn't let me have an easy time either,
early in the morning a colleague called to say his computer had a problem,
could I take a look,
darn,
I'm not a computer repairman,
I said,
I really can't get up,
I just fell asleep not long ago.
I put off that matter...
But once one wakes up,
one can't fall asleep again,
half asleep and half awake,
LP called again,
saying we were supposed to take the baby out to play today,
when were you coming back?
I said I was coming back right away.
Got up and took a shower,
to clear my head,
I was too tired,
only slept for about three hours.
Drove back to JAX,
back to my alma mater.
The campus was celebrating Children's Day,
having an art performance.
Found my mother-in-law and the baby,
after watching the performance, we went home.
Went back and slept,
got up at noon to eat,
slept again in the afternoon.
After waking up, I thought,
divorce.
Actually, just thinking about that word is scary.
If this word is spoken,
it's like a knife,
it's very hurtful.
And the after-effects are too可怕,
how to put it,
there's basically no chance to go back,
even if there is a chance to go back,
it's like a broken porcelain,
there will always be ugly cracks.
But I thought it over and over,
can this kind of life still go on?
The longer it's dragged out,
the deeper the hurt.
After dinner,
I picked up my parents,
didn't tell them what was going on,
just said it was Children's Day,
picked them up to see the baby.
Wait until my father-in-law came back with cigarettes,
I called LP out too,
I said,
正好 four elders are all here,
I have something to say.
I knelt down in front of the four elders,
and said,
I want a divorce.
This immediately caused a commotion,
everyone was stunned.
Then there were quarrels, scoldings, dissuasions,
it was a mess.
My mother-in-law immediately got angry,
I had already expected this.
But what I didn't expect was,
she actually suddenly started beating LP,
beating and scolding,
you dead girl,
told you to come back early and you didn't,
missed out on so many good marriage opportunities.
Meaning is, see now,
you married this unfaithful guy by mistake.
I blocked her, protected my LP,
I said,
Mom,
if you're angry, hit me,
don't hit my LP.
Mother-in-law said,
Don't call me mom,
you want a divorce,
go write the petition now.
Kao,
it's not like I'm divorcing you,
what are you getting excited about,
afraid that we won't divorce, is that it?
My LP also got fired up,
said,
Write the divorce agreement now,
I'll sign it right away.
I was really dizzy...
I said,
Why don't you write it?
My LP said,
It's not that I said I want to divorce,
why should I write it?
Darn,
does it matter who writes it?
Still arguing about this?
Besides, if you write it, you can protect yourself more, right?
You don't even have this awareness of safeguarding rights.
But fortunately, compared to the mother-in-law,
at least she didn't mistake the divorce agreement for a petition.
Forget it, forget it,
the scene was a mess,
I couldn't stay here anymore.
Going back to JA.
The elders were all worried that my emotions were too excited and it wasn't suitable to drive,
actually I wasn't that excited,
it's not like I was meeting Chairman Mao,
what's there to be excited about,
it's just a quarrel,
once you leave the scene, it's fine,
何况 it's not even a quarrel.
Sometimes I even feel if I'm too cold-blooded.
Father-in-law was better,
said,
If you want to go, just go,
drive carefully on the road,
it's raining, drive slowly,
call and report your safety when you arrive.
When I got home,
called and reported my safety,
my parents did my ideological work,
I also told them something about the matter,
then made my attitude clear,
if LP is willing to continue living with me,
I'm okay with that,
if she doesn't want to, I can't help it.
Parents said,
Everything should be considered for the baby's sake,
don't care too much,
in short,
no writing of any agreements,
you two talk things out slowly.
Everyone hopes you two can live a good life.
Everyone?
I guess at least one person won't hope so,
that's my mother-in-law,
looking at her that way,
she used to brag to everyone that she had a good son-in-law,
now she must hate me to death.
It's strange if she still hopes that I live with her daughter,
if it takes tearing down ten temples to separate us,
she must be carrying a hoe to tear down temples right now.
To be honest,
my mother-in-law is still a good person,
but it's also her who messed things up.
Back then she gave her daughter to me,
saying she wanted me to take good care of her daughter,
but actually,
she根本 didn't mean to give her to me.
I said I got a LP,
but I didn't really feel like I had a home.
She never let go,
I fought with her for three years,
I think,
I failed.
And,
I'm also tired,
don't want to fight anymore.
It's also funny to say,
back then I liked my LP,
my mother-in-law also played a big role,
I thought the mother was smart, kind, and capable,
and the daughter wouldn't be far behind.
Now I want a divorce,
my mother-in-law also played a crucial role.
I won't go into details,
I'm also tired,
I have to go to work tomorrow,
so that's it.
On this Children's Day night,
such a divorce drama happened.
A human tragedy.
My poor baby,
your parents are facing a great disaster.
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今天是6月2日，是我提出离婚后的第一天！
日子也不是特别的难熬，因为今天还要上班，上班一忙的话就不会胡思乱想了。。。
可是闲下来的时候，唉，还真是觉得难受。
我的LP嫁给我之后，两人就没有过上几天真正在一起的日子。没有一起做家务，一起过日子，一切都有我丈母娘帮我们打理。幸福吧？
这是最大的悲哀！我LP说我身在福中不知福，可我真的不要这样的幸福！
我和LP没有在一起生活，没有共同面对生活中的点点滴滴，我要去见我LP一面，必须上我丈母娘家去，这是怎样一种不正常的生活？长
此以往，人将非人，家将不家！但我LP根本没认识到这一点，还一味依偎在母亲的怀抱里享福。当然，我们也没有时间交流思想，探讨
生活，而且我LP也根本没觉得有讨论的必要，一切有老妈打理，瞎操啥心啊。再说啦，根本没一起生活，那去讨论啥呀？
我是提出了离婚，因为我累了。
我不愿再和丈母娘争了。。。她不愿放手，那就让她全权处理吧。
我是提出了离婚，因为我觉得，如果我LP还不能和我达成一致，还和她老妈一条阵线的话，我是无法再和她生活在一起的。
但我不愿离婚。
Today is June 2nd, the first day after I filed for divorce!
The days aren't particularly hard, because I still have to go to work today. When I'm busy at work, I won't overthink...
But when I'm idle, alas, it's really uncomfortable.
After my LP married me, the two of us haven't had a few days of truly being together. There's no doing housework together, living life together, everything is taken care of by my mother-in-law for us. Happy?
This is the greatest sorrow! My LP says I'm unaware of the good things I have, but I really don't want such happiness!
I'm not living together with my LP, not facing the bits and pieces of life together. I have to go to my mother-in-law's home to see my LP, what kind of abnormal life is this? For a long time to come, a person will not be a person, a home will not be a home! But my LP doesn't even realize this, and still blindly clings to her mother's embrace to enjoy. Of course, we also don't have time to exchange thoughts, discuss life, and moreover my LP doesn't even think there's a need to discuss. Everything is taken care of by mom, why bother? Besides, not living together at all, then what is there to discuss?
I filed for divorce because I'm tired.
I don't want to argue with my mother-in-law anymore... She doesn't want to let go, then let her handle everything entirely.
I filed for divorce because I feel that if my LP can't reach an agreement with me and still stands with her mom, I can't live with her anymore.
But I don't want to divorce.
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今天是6月3日，是我提出离婚的第二天。
早上起来，老妈做好了汤粉，胡乱吃了一些，然后就在家里唠家常。
去见LP是不太可能的啦，
我在想，怎么样才能让LP知道我的想法呢?
上网看论坛？不太可能。
QQ留言？估计她这会儿也没空上QQ。
通过电脑是不行的，她不大爱玩电脑。
要找一个人去帮我做工作，
这人是谁呢？
我想到我俩的牵线的刘阿姨。
可这事也挺难开口的。
哦，我帮你介绍了个好姑娘，
你俩谈了恋爱结了婚，还生了个胖小子
结果你说离婚就离婚?
吵架就吵架呗，动不动就喊离婚？
现在后悔了?又要我出马给你摆平？
想想也觉得不行。
再说家丑不可外扬，
让人家刘阿姨知道不好，
你们闹离婚，那不是不给刘阿姨面子吗？
不行。
要不就找舅妈？
舅妈跟丈母娘关系好，跟LP关系也不错，
也许她们跟舅妈说过此事也不一定。
打个电话给老丈人，问问情况再说。
一问，老丈人说，
没告诉舅妈，
你们自己的事，
自己解决了就算了，
告诉其它人有什么好？
想想也算了，
她们没和舅妈说，
我也不能说。
也许我LP也没想闹大，
那天晚上只不过是气头上，
她其实也还想跟我过，
只不过她不知道如何才能跟我过正常的生活罢了。
我可怜的LP。。。
我不是不爱你，
我也不是不想和你过，
问题是你老妈在中间，
我没法和你过正常的日子呀。
你要是想明白了，
回来跟我好好过日子，
那我们俩都不用受这种折磨了。
今天看电视，
看到说离婚的单亲小孩多可怜，
对他们会造成多大的伤害，
我心里也特别难受，
我的宝宝，
你父母正在努力处理这场灾难，
如果处理不好的话，
我的宝宝就太可怜了。
今天收到快递，
是我第一次网上购物。
结果回来一看是假货，
跟卖主在淘宝上沟通了一中午，
达成了一致。
他全额退款给我。
真郁闷啊，第一次网上购物就这样。
不行了，要去上班了。就写到这里。
Today is June 3rd, the second day since I proposed divorce.
Got up in the morning, mom made soup noodles, ate some randomly, then chatted at home.
It's impossible to meet LP.
I'm thinking, how can I let LP know my thoughts?
Surf the forum? Impossible.
QQ message? Estimate she doesn't have time to be on QQ at this moment.
Through computer is no good, she doesn't like playing computer much.
Need to find someone to help me do work,
Who is this person?
I thought of Aunt Liu who introduced us.
But this matter is also difficult to speak up.
Oh, I introduced a good girl for you,
You two fell in love, got married, and had a fat boy
Result you say divorce just divorce?
Quarrel just quarrel, shout divorce at every turn?
Now regret? Want me to come out again to settle it for you?
Think it's not okay.
Moreover, family shame should not be publicized,
Let Aunt Liu know not good,
You two make divorce, that's not giving Aunt Liu face?
No.
Or find aunt?
Aunt has good relationship with mother-in-law, and also good relationship with LP,
Maybe they have told aunt about this matter.
Make a phone call to father-in-law, ask the situation first.
Ask, father-in-law said,
Didn't tell aunt,
Your own matter,
Just settle it by yourself,
What's the good of telling others?
Think it's also算了,
They didn't tell aunt,
I can't say either.
Maybe my LP also didn't want to make it big,
That night just was in a fit of anger,
She actually still wants to live with me,
Just she doesn't know how to live a normal life with me.
My poor LP...
I don't not love you,
I also don't not want to live with you,
The problem is your mom is in the middle,
I can't live a normal life with you.
If you figure it out,
Come back and live a good life with me,
Then both of us don't need to suffer this kind of torture.
Watched TV today,
Saw that there are many pitiful single-parent children from divorce,
What great harm it will cause to them,
My heart is also very uncomfortable,
My baby,
Your parents are trying to handle this disaster,
If not handled well,
My baby will be too pitiful.
Received express today,
It's my first online shopping.
Result came back and saw it's fake,
Communicated with the seller on Taobao for the whole noon,
Reached an agreement.
He refunded me in full.
Really depressed, the first online shopping is like this.
Can't do it, need to go to work. Just write here.
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『第 4 楼』:
提出离婚的第三天
使用 LLM 解释/回答一下
今天是6月4日，是我提出离婚后的第三天
下了班，到了家，已经是凌晨零点半了。
打开本本，随便扫了扫网页，就一点了。。。
突然来了兴趣，把《Prison break》第2季的最后两集下载来看。
看完就三点了。
困死了，就睡了。
早上八点半，醒了，饿的。
现在我吃得很少，
上晚班又不吃夜霄，下了晚班又玩到三点，
到了早上不饿才怪。
本来饿应该更早起来吃东西，
本来困应该更晚起来多睡会，
而困与饿的斗争结果就是它们达成了妥协，
大家各让一步，
我八点半就这样醒了。
吃了一个馒头，
昨晚带回来的凉拌粉煮得太烂，难吃死了，
再饿我也吃不下。
打开本本，上了一会网，
想起上午还要去寄快递，
昨天就说了，
我第一次网上购物就买到了假货，
这是去退货。
到了申通快递办完了，
又到中行去销户，
我那本中行的存折早就没钱了，
也不想用中行的了，
存折多了还难管理，
能销的都销掉去，
钱又没有，
存折倒是多，
还要花那么多精神去打理，
亏死去。
到加油站去查了查我的加油记录，
前一阵子自己没在本本上记录，
还好办了加油卡，
加油站电脑里有记录，
有卡就是方便啊。
然后上市里去，
先去吃了个清汤，
再到GG超市去逛了一下子。
说实在的，
我现在都不知道去超市应该做什么，
因为我真的不知道有什么好买的。
我这么胖，
早就不吃零食了，
日用品也没啥好买的，
家里要有的也差不多都有了，
那去超市就是去浪费我的时间。
我走到家电区，
发现以前看到了一款联创的空调扇，
价钱还是和以前一样，
不过现在送礼品了。
促销员向我推荐，
我说我还要再逛逛，
现在不要。
后来我到专门的KH电器超市去看了看，
价钱一样，
还不送东东。
又看了看冰箱，
发现前两天去看的那款美的的冰箱这里报价居然高了200大元。
狂晕啊，
到KH电器的总部去再一看，
也提价了。。。
以前是1850还送亚麻席，
现在2050还啥都不送。
跟那天那个销售员说了一下，
她也记得我那天来看过这款冰箱，
结果说要不就直接按1850拿了，
亚麻席也照送。
我说，那天标价就是1850哪，
实际成交价至少还可以少100吧？
她说那也没办法，
那天你不是没买嘛，
现在提价了，
这个价还是我问过了经理才答应的。
不过，为了补偿我，
让我心里稍微平衡一点，
再送一套美的的刀具。
于是直接付了钱。
回到GG超市，
拿了空调扇，
又花了400大洋。
人是不是闷了就想去花钱啊？
冰箱我早就想买了，
原来是打算买回来后，
把LP和宝宝接过来住，
在家里开伙，
现在闹成这样了，
一时半会LP是不会过来了，
但我一个人在这边过日子也得用冰箱，还得买。
丈母娘家是不能回去了，
自己老妈家里也不能时常回去，
还是得自己在自己家里过，
那吃饭就成问题了。
没个冰箱，
根本没法开伙，
总不成天天去街上吃吧？
那个空调扇也是以前就关注了的，
本来也是想接LP过来住的时候用的。
一是省得时时开空调，
二是那时计划是丈母娘一起过来帮着带宝宝，
丈母娘体质特怪，大夏天的还特怕冷，
她肯定是不愿天天开空调的，
而空调扇就没有什么妨碍。
这会儿也落了个空，
那就让我自己独自爽吧。
回来开始收拾一下子东西，
开水壶上一层的灰，
全拿来洗干净。
一会儿冰箱送回来了，
到了晚上就可以用了。
家里乱糟糟的，
慢慢收拾吧，
反正有的是时间了，
又不用赶着去丈母娘家，
又不用哄LP，带孩子，
一点一点收拾吧。
收音机里在说股票的事，
现在大盘掉得一塌糊涂了，
我也是因为接到电话说我的基金掉得厉害，帮我抛掉了，
我才打开本本上网查了一下行情。
股市并没有在3850这个点有支撑，
而是狂掉了330点，直接到了3670,
这比什么2.27和4.19那两天恐怖多了。
还好我没有进去。
基金到现在出来的话应该也赚了8000左右吧，
虽然少赚了4000到5000,
但总的来说还是小赚了一笔，
满足了吧。
写了这么多，
好像今天没怎么提到我LP，
其实我真的不知道怎么办才好。
我LP她现在怎么样了，
是不是一直很伤心，
我想想就觉得难受，
真的想告诉她，
我其实根本没想真的和她离婚，
只不过是希望她能重视我俩的生活，
希望她能仔细想想她到底是要什么，
或者说我到底是想要什么。
如果说她不认真思考，
还不把这事当一回事，
还当我是胡闹，
那即使我一时妥协了，
以后迟早还是回到这条绝路上来的。
LP啊，
冷静下来，
仔细想想吧，
不要无谓的伤心了，
我也不想惹得你那样伤心，
想想我们要过的生活，
想想我们到底要如何才能过和和美美？
你要有勇气和我一起过日子，
而不是天天躲在你妈妈的怀抱里当你的乖女啊。
你要相信我，
你要依靠我，
你要懂得去刺激一个男人花心思去保护你，爱护你，守护你，
而不是一边不给我机会，
一边对我发牢骚说我不疼你啊。
收音机里传来
《放我的真心在你的手心》的歌声，
我听了真的很有感触。
马上到百度一搜索，
把这首歌的歌词贴在下面吧。
放我的真心在你的手心
也许明天不再相遇
放你的真情在我的衣襟
风雨吹不进我心的宁静
眼前多少艰难漫漫长路
有谁来陪伴你同行
眼底藏着秘密只愿与你同行
要把世界唤醒
放你的名字在我的内心
我们一定会再相聚
放我的歌声在你的记忆
让人间多些爱的传奇
矮～矮～
眼前多少艰难漫漫长路
有谁来陪伴你同行
眼底藏着秘密只愿与你同行
要把世界唤醒
放我的真心在你的手心
也许明天不在相遇
放你的真情在我的衣襟
风雨吹不进我心的宁静
眼前多少艰难漫漫长路
有谁来陪伴你同行
眼底藏着秘密只愿与你同行
要把世界唤醒
矮～矮～
放你的名字在我的内心
我们一定会再相聚
放我的歌声在你的记忆
让人间多些爱的传奇
放我的真心在你的手心
也许明天不在相遇
放我的歌声在你的记忆
让人间多些爱的传奇
放我的真心在你的手心
也许明天不在相遇
放我的歌声在你的记忆
让人间多些爱的传奇
LP，你得勇敢一点，
把你的手交给我才行。
说到歌，
昨天和爸爸一起聊天的时候倒是想起一个主意，
点歌。
爸爸说，
时代进步了，
好多东西都被替代了，
电影院被电视机抢走了观众，
以前人们喜欢在电视里点歌现在好像也很少人点了。
我想这倒是一个办法，
不过好像也不太好办，
如果点歌的话，
点哪首歌呢？
哪首歌能比较好的，比较全面地表达我的意思呢？
选歌这还不很麻烦，
那留言呢？
留言应该怎么写呢？
当那么多观众的面向LP道歉倒是可以让她被我伤透的自尊心稍微好受些，
但一是，道歉，妥协对我们以后的生活没有帮助，
二是，道歉，那不是让大家都知道我们俩闹别扭了吗？
LP想不想成为公众人物还不一定呢，
万一被同事议论和笑话，LP肯定又要恼我了。
再说了，
LP现在和丈母娘还在一起，
晚上如果看电视的话也在一起，
我才不愿被丈母娘看到呢。
这事难办。
LP，你常说我不动脑子，
我真的不动脑子吗？
我其实想得挺多的，
只不过象这样想的过程我不会告诉你的。
比如点歌这个方法，
我权衡了一下，
就否决了，
并不是我没想过用这个方法，
但我得出的结论是这个方法不行，
你要问我为什么不行，
一定要问我为什么，
那也就是说，
你根本没想到那些原因，
你想不到那些原因，
就觉得那种方法可以试一试，
就觉得我不采用那种方法是不可理解的，
就一定要我去按你的想法去试试这个方法，
我不照办，
你就会生气，
说我不会动脑筋，
说替我想了法子出了主意我又不采纳，
说我专制，粗暴，无理，
因为我没有照你的建议去做，
又没有给出合适的理由。
有些事情，
是需要你和我有共识的，
有些事情，
它的理由不是很好说出来，
有些事情，
它本身就是一种生活常识，
不需要多做解释的。
你一定要我告诉你为什么，
有时会分散我的精力，
有时会增加我的困扰，
有时会让我很苦恼，
因为有时我思考的问题本身就让我很苦恼，
而你不是很好恰当的建议会逼得我去考虑那些我已经抛开的东西。
唉，可是你大多数时候都意识不到你的建议是不是对我有用。
LP，你记得我以前跟你说过的《京华烟云》里的那个木兰吗？
那个善解人意的木兰，
她也遇到过“离婚”的危机，
但是她机智巧妙地化解了这样的灾难。
你要是象她一样，
我就不用担心你会傻傻地伤心，
我也不用怕我们没法度过这场灾难了。
不过，如果你象她一样，
我们也根本不可能会出现这样的局面啊。
因为我爱你，
我不会象那个花花公子荪亚一样，
放着有个好LP不要。
LP，希望你能早日从伤心悲痛中走出来，
认真思考一下我们的问题所在吧。
早点结束这种难受的局面，
让我们好好地过日子，
我们是一个幸福家庭，
就要象一个真正的幸福家庭才对，是吧？
我得去买点菜了，
晚上自己做一餐可口的饭菜，
安慰一下自己。
三年了，
如果说真正过三年的日子，
天天自己炒菜的话，
我的厨艺应该也不错了，
可惜的是，
根本没啥机会自己动手炒菜，
所以等一会儿等待我的是可口的饭菜还是难吃的饭菜可真说不准。
买空调扇送的那个礼品是个活氧机，
也就是臭氧发生器，
据说有很好的消毒作用和保健作用，
放在身边试了一下，
嗯，
它生成的气体有股很浓的鱼腥味，
果然是臭的。
买菜去了。886
Today is June 4th, the third day after I filed for divorce.
After work, I got home, it was already 0:30 in the morning.
I turned on the laptop, casually scanned some web pages, and it was already 1 o'clock...
Suddenly I got interested, downloaded and watched the last two episodes of "Prison break" season 2.
After watching it, it was 3 o'clock.
I was so sleepy, so I went to sleep.
At 8:30 in the morning, I woke up, feeling hungry.
Now I eat very little,
I don't eat supper when working night shifts, and after work at night, I play until 3 o'clock,
No wonder I'm not hungry in the morning.
Originally, I should get up earlier to eat when hungry,
Originally, I should get up later to sleep more when sleepy,
And the result of the struggle between sleepiness and hunger is that they reached a compromise,
Each gave in a bit,
So I woke up at 8:30 like this.
I ate a steamed bun,
The cold noodles I brought back last night were cooked too soft, it was extremely unpalatable,
No matter how hungry I was, I couldn't eat it.
I turned on the laptop and surfed the Internet for a while,
I remembered that I had to go to send a courier in the morning,
I said yesterday,
My first online shopping bought fake goods,
This is to return it.
After handling it at Shuntong Express,
I went to Bank of China to close the account,
My passbook in Bank of China has long been out of money,
I don't want to use Bank of China anymore,
Having too many passbooks is difficult to manage,
I should close all that can be closed,
There is no money,
There are many passbooks,
I still have to spend so much energy to manage them, it's a loss.
I went to the gas station to check my refueling records,
I didn't record it on the laptop for a while before,
Fortunately, I have a refueling card,
There are records in the gas station's computer,
Having a card is convenient, ah.
Then I went to the city,
First I ate a light soup,
Then I went to GG Supermarket to stroll around for a while.
To be honest,
I don't know what to do in the supermarket now,
Because I really don't know what to buy.
I'm so fat,
I haven't eaten snacks for a long time,
There's nothing to buy for daily necessities,
Most of what's needed at home is almost there,
Then going to the supermarket is just a waste of my time.
I walked to the home appliance area,
I found a Lianchuang air-cooled fan that I saw before,
The price is still the same as before,
But now there are gifts.
The salesperson recommended it to me,
I said I still need to stroll around,
I don't want it now.
Later I went to the special KH Electrical Appliances Supermarket to have a look,
The price is the same,
And no gifts are given.
I also looked at the refrigerator,
I found that the price of the Midea refrigerator I saw the other day is actually 200 yuan higher here.
I was extremely shocked, ah,
I went to the headquarters of KH Electrical Appliances and took another look,
It was also price-increased...
Originally it was 1850 and also gave a linen mat,
Now it's 2050 and nothing is given.
I told the salesperson that day,
She also remembered that I came to see this refrigerator that day,
As a result, she said that I can just take it at 1850 directly,
And the linen mat will also be given as promised.
I said, the marked price that day was 1850,
The actual transaction price can at least be reduced by 100 yuan?
She said there was no way,
You didn't buy it that day,
Now it's price-increased,
This price is what I asked the manager to agree to.
However, to compensate me,
Let me feel a little more balanced in my heart,
I will give another set of Midea knives.
So I paid directly.
I went back to GG Supermarket,
Got the air-cooled fan,
Spent another 400 yuan.
Is it that when people are bored, they want to spend money?
I have long wanted to buy a refrigerator,
Originally, I planned that after buying it,
I would pick up my wife and baby to live here,
Cook at home,
Now it's like this,
My wife won't come over for a while,
But I have to use a refrigerator to live alone here, and I still have to buy it.
I can't go back to my mother-in-law's house,
I can't go back to my own mother's house often,
I still have to live in my own house,
Then eating is a problem.
Without a refrigerator,
I can't cook at all,
Can't I eat out every day?
I also paid attention to that air-cooled fan before,
Originally, it was also intended to be used when picking up my wife.
First, to avoid turning on the air conditioner all the time,
Second, at that time, the plan was that my mother-in-law would come together to help take care of the baby,
My mother-in-law has a very strange constitution, and she is very afraid of the cold in hot summer,
She definitely wouldn't want to turn on the air conditioner every day,
And the air-cooled fan doesn't have any obstacles.
This time it also came to nothing,
Then let me enjoy it alone.
I came back and started to tidy up things,
The dust on the electric kettle was all washed clean.
The refrigerator will be delivered later,
I can use it in the evening.
The house is messy,
I'll clean it up slowly,
Anyway, I have plenty of time,
I don't have to rush to my mother-in-law's house,
I don't have to coax my wife and take care of the baby,
I'll clean it up bit by bit.
The radio is talking about stocks,
Now the market is plummeting,
I also checked the market conditions on the laptop because I received a call saying that my fund has dropped sharply and I was asked to sell it,
The stock market didn't have support at the 3850 point,
But it plummeted 330 points and directly reached 3670,
This is scarier than those days on 2.27 and 4.19.
Fortunately, I didn't get in.
If the fund is withdrawn now, it should have earned about 8000,
Although I earned 4000 to 5000 less,
But overall, I still made a small profit,
Satisfied.
I wrote so much,
It seems that I didn't mention my wife much today,
Actually, I really don't know what to do.
How is my wife now,
Is she always very sad,
I feel sad when I think about it,
I really want to tell her,
I didn't really want to divorce her at all,
I just hope she can value our life,
I hope she can think carefully what she really wants,
Or what I really want.
If she doesn't think carefully,
Still doesn't take this matter seriously,
Still thinks I'm fooling around,
Then even if I compromise for a while,
Sooner or later I will come back to this dead end.
Wife,
Calm down,
Think carefully,
Don't be needlessly sad,
I don't want to make you so sad either,
Think about the life we want to live,
Think about how we can live a harmonious life?
You have the courage to live with me,
Instead of hiding in your mother's arms every day to be your good girl.
You have to believe in me,
You have to rely on me,
You have to know how to stimulate a man to spend his mind to protect you, love you, and guard you,
Instead of not giving me a chance on one hand,
And complaining to me on the other hand that I don't love you.
The song "Put My Sincere Heart in Your Palm" came from the radio,
I really felt touched when I listened to it.
I immediately searched on Baidu,
Pasted the lyrics of this song below.
Put my sincere heart in your palm
Maybe we won't meet tomorrow
Put your true feelings in my coat
The wind and rain can't blow into the tranquility of my heart
There are many difficult and long roads ahead
Who will accompany you on the journey
There are secrets in my eyes, only willing to travel with you
To wake up the world
Put your name in my heart
We will definitely meet again
Put my song in your memory
Let there be more love legends in the world
Ai～Ai～
There are many difficult and long roads ahead
Who will accompany you on the journey
There are secrets in my eyes, only willing to travel with you
To wake up the world
Put my sincere heart in your palm
Maybe we won't meet tomorrow
Put your true feelings in my coat
The wind and rain can't blow into the tranquility of my heart
There are many difficult and long roads ahead
Who will accompany you on the journey
There are secrets in my eyes, only willing to travel with you
To wake up the world
Ai～Ai～
Put your name in my heart
We will definitely meet again
Put my song in your memory
Let there be more love legends in the world
Put my sincere heart in your palm
Maybe we won't meet tomorrow
Put my song in your memory
Let there be more love legends in the world
Put my sincere heart in your palm
Maybe we won't meet tomorrow
Put my song in your memory
Let there be more love legends in the world
Wife, you have to be brave,
You have to give me your hand.
Speaking of songs,
When I chatted with my father yesterday, I thought of an idea,
Ordering songs.
Dad said,
Times have progressed,
Many things have been replaced,
The cinema has lost its audience to the TV,
In the past, people liked to order songs on TV, but now it seems that few people do it.
I think this is a way,
But it seems not easy to handle,
If I order a song,
Which song to order?
Which song can better and comprehensively express my meaning?
Choosing a song is still very troublesome,
What about the message?
How should the message be written?
Apologizing to my wife in front of so many viewers can make her broken self-esteem feel a little better,
But first, apologizing and compromising is not helpful for our future life,
Second, apologizing, won't that make everyone know that we are having a quarrel?
I don't know if my wife wants to be a public figure or not,
If my colleagues talk about and laugh at it, my wife will definitely be angry with me again.
Besides,
My wife is still with my mother-in-law now,
If we watch TV in the evening, we are together,
I don't want my mother-in-law to see it.
This matter is difficult.
Wife, you often say that I don't use my brain,
Do I really not use my brain?
I actually think a lot,
It's just that I won't tell you the process of thinking like this.
For example, the method of ordering songs,
I weighed it,
And rejected it,
It's not that I didn't think about using this method,
But I came to the conclusion that this method doesn't work,
If you want me to tell you why it doesn't work,
That is to say,
You didn't think of those reasons at all,
You can't think of those reasons,
You think that method can be tried,
You think it's incomprehensible that I don't adopt that method,
You must ask me to try this method according to your idea,
If I don't do it,
You will get angry,
Say that I don't use my brain,
Say that I came up with an idea for me and I don't adopt it,
Say that I am autocratic, rough, unreasonable,
Because I didn't do as you suggested,
And didn't give a proper reason.
Some things,
Need to have a consensus between you and me,
Some things,
The reason is not easy to say,
Some things,
It itself is a common sense of life,
No need for more explanation.
You must ask me why,
Sometimes it will distract my energy,
Sometimes it will increase my troubles,
Sometimes it will make me very distressed,
Because sometimes the problem I'm thinking about makes me very distressed,
And your not very appropriate suggestion will force me to consider those things I have put aside.
Alas, but most of the time you don't realize whether your suggestion is useful to me.
Wife, do you remember that Mu Lan in "Moment in Peking" that I told you before?
That understanding Mu Lan,
She also encountered a "divorce" crisis,
But she cleverly resolved such a disaster.
If you are like her,
I don't have to worry that you will be stupidly sad,
I don't have to be afraid that we can't get through this disaster.
However, if you are like her,
We would never have such a situation at all.
Because I love you,
I won't be like that playboy Sun Ya,
Letting go of a good wife.
Wife, I hope you can get out of the sadness and pain as soon as possible,
Think carefully about the problem between us,
End this uncomfortable situation as soon as possible,
Let's live a good life,
We are a happy family,
We should be like a real happy family, right?
I have to go buy some vegetables,
Cook a delicious meal by myself in the evening,
Comfort myself.
For three years,
If I really live for three years,
Cooking by myself every day,
My cooking skills should be good,
Unfortunately,
There is really no chance to cook by myself,
So it's really not certain whether the meal waiting for me will be delicious or not.
The gift given with the air-cooled fan is an oxygen generator,
That is, an ozone generator,
It is said to have very good disinfection and health care effects,
I tried it by my side,
Well,
The gas it generates has a strong fishy smell,
Sure enough, it's smelly.
Going to buy vegetables. 886
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『第 5 楼』:
提出离婚的第四天
使用 LLM 解释/回答一下
今天是6月5日，是我提出离婚后的第四天。
下了零班回来，
到冰箱里拿了冻好的冰晶，放在空调扇里试试效果。
昨天上5460里看到新短消息，
是WZ发过来的，
说他那里有LCD，
不过他不知道我是谁，
要我从实招来。
我晕，
原来短消息是用昵称发过去的，
赶紧回复。
今天上来想看看有没有消息。没有。
昨天还替ZQA发布了他喜得贵子的消息。
LZG回复了一下，恭喜了一番。
到我的Blog里看了一下，
然后到灌水区看到一篇帖子，
觉得很有意思，
特此转在下面。
为什么婚戒要带在无名指上（一个奇妙的生理现象）
1，首先大家伸出两手，将中指向下弯曲，对靠在一起，就是中指的背跟背靠在一起
2，然后将其它的4个手指分别指尖对碰
3，在开始游戏的正题之前，请确保以下过程中，5个手指只允许一对手指分开。下面开始游戏的正题。
4，请张开你们那对大母指，大母指代表我们的父母，能够张开，每个人都会有生老病死，父母也会有一天离我们而去。
5，请大家合上大母指，再张开食指，食指代表兄弟姐妹，他们也都会有自己的家世，也会离开我们。
6，请大家合上食指，再张开小母指，小母指代表子女，子女长大后，迟早有一天，会有自己的家庭生活，也会离开我们。
7，那么，请大家合上小母指，再试着张开无名指。这个时候，大家会惊奇的发现无名指怎么也张不开，因为无名指代表夫妻，是一辈子不分离的。真正的爱，粘在一起后，是永生永世都分不开的。
这就是夫妻。
LP，是的，父母兄弟姐妹子女都不是陪伴我们一生的人，
真正能相伴一生的只有夫妻啊，
和你过日子的应该是我而不是其它人。
以前我没有很好的注意到这一点，
让你觉得很不高兴，
我让过多的人参与到我们俩的生活中来，
是我不对，
后来我认识到了这点，
也在改，
对不对？
可是你直接让老妈替我照顾你，
我也很失落。
我好像无足轻重一样。
我虽然错了，
但还仅仅是让其它人参与到我俩的生活中来，
可你不是让老妈参与进来，
而是在很大程度上替代了我，
这更是不对。
我那样虽然也影响我俩的生活，
但好歹我们俩是生活的主体，
我们是中心，
是在我们自己家里，
是自己当家作主。
你那样的生活，
我过不来。
你想象没断奶的孩子一样依偎在老妈的怀里享福，
就一定会失去你LG的怀抱。
你不可能同时待在两个人的怀里。
你那样跟着老妈过日子，
那就没和LG过日子的机会。
你要享福，
这也没错，
但是如果你真的爱一个人的话，
如果你要享的这种福，
会危及到你和你爱的这个人的感情的时候，
你应该会知道怎样取舍。
我不是要你吃苦，
我也希望你享福，
但是希望你享受的是我给的幸福。
如果说LG提供的比老妈提供的要差些，
你也应该知道该选择谁的，
LG才是陪伴你一生的人啊。
说到差，
这也没法比较，
我说过，
事情总不是十全十美的，
甲方案有甲方案的好处，也有它的不足，
乙方案也一样，
到底哪种更好，哪种更差，
很难比较的，
就看你自己取舍了。。。
如果你要选择你老妈，
那我只好离开。
不是我不肯给你幸福，
而是你不要。
跟LG过日子对你来说就这么难吗？
说到真的爱一个人，
你也可以说，
你如果真的爱我的话，
那为什么不为我多考虑一点呢？
为什么不迁就我一点呢？
你又会跟我讨论爱与自私的问题了。
事实上应该是这样想的。
就拿我们这件事来讲，
你选择和我一起过日子的话，
你是做出了牺牲，
你牺牲了一些便利，
牺牲了一些舒适，
但是会换来我加倍的疼你，爱你。
你的付出不是没有回报的。
你选择和老妈一起过日子，
而要求我一起回来和你老妈过，
我牺牲的不仅仅是时间，
精力，舒适，
而是我的家，我的LP，我的生活。
你要我做这样的付出，
我得到什么回报？
你常常弱弱地讲，
把家安在你身边，
你可以更好的照顾这个家。
你所谓的“家”是个什么家？
一个女子，
嫁给了一个男子，
和他共同建立了一个家，
什么叫家？
有男人和女人在一起才叫家。
你离开我给你的家，
那还谈什么照顾家？
你的家在哪你都不清楚，
还说更好地照顾家？？
LP，不是我要离婚，
而是你先不要我的，
只不过你自己还没意识到这一点，
你自己离开我，
而我只不过是提出来，
这样做会导致很痛苦的结果。
所以，
我并不是真的要离婚，
我只不过是告诉你这个后果很严重，
如果不正确地解决这个问题的话，
到时只有这一条路而已。
我只是指给你看，
你现在走的路会走到哪里去。
我等着你回来，
回到我的身边，
跟我一起好好地过日子。
一起好好地建设我们的小家庭。
我希望，
你能自己把这个问题想清楚，
而不是一个劲地怨恨我，
或者可怜你自己，
甚至怨恨你自己。
如果你能尽早把这事想通，
那我俩现在受的煎熬也值了。
我要睡了，
熬不住了。
下午老丈人打了电话过来，
告诉我宝宝生病了，
打了两天青霉素，
明天还要打一天。
然后教育我要早点和LP沟通，
不能不闻不问。
认个错有什么大不了的？
然后又用他以身作则举了个例子。
我倒不是说家里不要以和为贵，
不要互相体谅，互相忍让，
但像他这样无原则地去忍让我也不赞成。
我是要打个电话给LP，
可什么时候打比较合适呢？
怎么和LP沟通呢？
我其实蛮怕讲话的，
因为讲话是互动的，
你本来想这样讲，
说不定会讲走样，
而且你会受对方的态度，语气，话语的影响，
你说出来的不一定是你自己本来打算说的。
如果对话中产生了误会，
就有可能导致想说的话没说，
不该说的却说出来，
可能会偏离原来的计划，
越滑越远。
而文字这东西有一个好，
即便是你前面误解了，
你耐心看完后，
也能知道对方想说的是什么。
当然也要你能耐心看下去，
如果一气之下看都不往下看了，
那也没辙。
但如果是对话当中，
有可能你就是改变主意了，
想听下去，
估计十之八九对方也不会往下讲了。
看文字是别人写出来了，
看不看完取决于你自己，
听人讲话就不同，
别人还没讲完呢，
你一生气打断了，
别人的话就断了，
想听都听不到了。
所以说对话是互动的，
而且容易受各种因素影响，
不确定性太大。
当然文字也有不好的地方，
白纸黑字，
将来你所写的一切都将作为“呈堂证供”，
你跑都跑不了。
唉，别的都没什么，
就是苦了我的宝宝。
如果LP能听我的，
就宝宝这个问题上，
也会避免许多麻烦。
我宝宝也许就能少受点苦。
这倒不是说她们没带好宝宝，
带宝宝这一点上，
无论是我LP还是我丈母娘，
都是非常尽心尽责的，
只不过各人有各人的方法，
我的方法她们不太容易接受罢了，
但我相信，
如果真的按我的方法去带，
我们应该会更轻松些。
不去比哪种方法宝宝生病的次数更少，
这没法试，
也没法比，
因为她们带得太细心了，
带得细心，
自然就避免了许多生病的机会，
但如果带得太细心的话，
哪天稍不注意宝宝就容易生病。
而我主要从增强宝宝的免疫力着手，
虽然好像带得粗些，
但锻练了宝宝的能力，
大人也可以省心些，
宝宝也不会那么弱不禁风。
当然，带得粗些，
宝宝被感染的机会也多些，
所以从生病的计量上来看，
它的绝对值有可能比精细地带要多些。
但我宝宝的抵抗力要强，
身体素质会更好啊。
什么时候打电话呢？
明天上午吧，
等LP上班的时候打可能会好些。
本来变数就多，
我可不想LP接电话的时候丈母娘也在，
那样更加不容易控制局面。
能避免就尽量避免吧。
LP，我又用到了你的“避免论”，
你不会又说，
哦，
你批评我的避免论，
可你自己也在用！
其实是不一样的，
如果你真正理解了，
就会懂的，
不用我再给你解释。
希望我宝宝的病快点好起来。
宝宝，
是爸爸对不起你，
城门失火，
泱及池鱼。
我祈祷你快快好起来，
你也要祝爸爸妈妈早点和好，
知道不？
Last edited by ko20010214 on 2007-6-5 at 07:31 PM ]
Today is June 5th, the fourth day after I proposed divorce.
After coming back from the night shift,
I took out the frozen ice crystals from the refrigerator and tried them in the air cooler.
I saw a new private message on 5460 yesterday,
it was from WZ,
saying that he has LCD there,
but he doesn't know who I am,
so he asked me to tell the truth.
I was confused,
it turned out that the private message was sent with a nickname,
so I quickly replied.
I came up today to see if there were any messages. There weren't.
I also announced ZQA's news of having a precious son yesterday.
LZG replied and congratulated.
I went to my Blog and then to the chat area and saw a post,
I found it very interesting, so I reprinted it below.
Why the wedding ring is worn on the ring finger (a wonderful physiological phenomenon)
1, First, stretch out both hands, bend the middle fingers down and bring them together, that is, the backs of the middle fingers are against each other
2, Then touch the fingertips of the other 4 fingers respectively
3, Before starting the main part of the game, make sure that only one pair of fingers can be separated in the following process. Now start the main part of the game.
4, Please open your thumbs. Thumbs represent our parents. They can be opened. Everyone will have birth, old age, sickness and death, and parents will leave us one day.
5, Please close the thumbs, then open the index fingers. Index fingers represent brothers and sisters. They will also have their own families and leave us.
6, Please close the index fingers, then open the little fingers. Little fingers represent children. When children grow up, they will have their own family life one day and leave us.
7, Then, please close the little fingers, then try to open the ring finger. At this time, everyone will be surprised to find that the ring finger can't be opened at all, because the ring finger represents the couple, and they will never be separated. True love, once stuck together, will never be separated for life.
This is the couple.
LP, yes, parents, brothers, sisters and children are not the people who will accompany us for a lifetime,
The only one who can accompany us for a lifetime is the couple,
The one who should live with you is me, not someone else.
I didn't pay good attention to this before,
Made you very unhappy,
I let too many people participate in our life,
It's my fault,
Later I realized this,
And I'm changing, right?
But you directly let mom take care of you,
I'm also very lost.
I seem to be insignificant.
Although I was wrong,
But I just let other people participate in our life,
But you didn't let mom participate,
But replaced me to a large extent,
This is even more wrong.
I was also affecting our life like that,
But at least the two of us are the main body of life,
We are the center,
In our own home,
Be our own master.
I can't live your life like that.
You are like a child who hasn't weaned, snuggling in mom's arms to enjoy happiness,
You will definitely lose your LG's arms.
You can't stay in the arms of two people at the same time.
If you live with mom like that,
Then there will be no chance to live with LG.
It's not wrong for you to want to enjoy happiness,
But if you really love someone,
If the happiness you want to enjoy,
When it endangers the relationship between you and the person you love,
You should know how to choose.
I don't want you to suffer,
I also hope you can enjoy happiness,
But I hope you enjoy the happiness I give.
If the happiness provided by LG is worse than that provided by mom,
You should also know who to choose,
LG is the one who will accompany you for a lifetime.
Speaking of bad,
This can't be compared,
I said,
Things are not perfect,
Plan A has the benefits of Plan A, and also has its shortcomings,
Plan B is the same,
Which is better and which is worse,
It's hard to compare,
It depends on your own choice...
If you choose your mom,
Then I have to leave.
It's not that I refuse to give you happiness,
But you don't want it.
Is it so difficult for you to live with LG?
Speaking of really loving someone,
You can also say,
If you really love me,
Then why don't you think more about me?
Why don't you accommodate me a little?
You will discuss the problem of love and self-interest with me again.
In fact, it should be like this.
Take our matter for example,
If you choose to live with me,
You have made a sacrifice,
You sacrificed some convenience,
Sacrificed some comfort,
But you will get my double love and care for you.
Your sacrifice is not without reward.
If you choose to live with mom,
And ask me to come back and live with your mom,
What I sacrifice is not only time,
Energy, comfort,
But my home, my LP, my life.
You want me to make such a sacrifice,
What reward do I get?
You often weakly say,
Set up the home by your side,
You can take better care of this home.
What kind of home do you call "home"?
A woman,
Married a man,
And built a home with him together,
What is a home?
A home is where a man and a woman are together.
You leave the home I gave you,
Then what about taking care of the home?
You don't even know where your home is,
And you say you can take better care of the home?
LP, it's not that I want to divorce,
But you don't want me first,
It's just that you haven't realized this yourself,
You leave me by yourself,
And I just put it forward,
This will lead to a very painful result.
So,
I don't really want to divorce,
I just want to tell you that this consequence is very serious,
If this problem is not solved correctly,
In the end, there will be only this way.
I just show you where the road you are walking will lead.
I'm waiting for you to come back,
Back to my side,
Live a good life with me.
Build our small family together.
I hope,
You can figure out this problem by yourself,
Instead of resenting me all the time,
Or feeling sorry for yourself,
Even resenting yourself.
If you can figure this out as soon as possible,
Then the suffering we are suffering now is worth it.
I'm going to sleep,
I can't hold on anymore.
My father-in-law called in the afternoon,
Told me that the baby was sick,
Had been given penicillin for two days,
And would be given another day tomorrow.
Then he educated me to communicate with LP early,
Can't ignore it.
What's the big deal about admitting a mistake?
Then he gave an example with himself as an example.
I'm not saying that the family should value harmony,
Don't understand and tolerate each other,
But I don't agree with him tolerating unconditionally like this.
I want to call LP,
But when is it appropriate to call?
How to communicate with LP?
Actually, I'm quite afraid of talking,
Because talking is interactive,
What you originally wanted to say like this,
Maybe it will be misspoken,
And you will be affected by the other party's attitude, tone, and words,
What you say may not be what you originally planned to say.
If there is a misunderstanding in the conversation,
It may lead to not saying what you want to say,
What shouldn't be said is said,
May deviate from the original plan,
Go further and further away.
And the good thing about text is that,
Even if you misunderstood before,
After you read it patiently,
You can also know what the other party wants to say.
Of course, you have to be patient to read it,
If you are so angry that you don't even want to read it,
Then there's no help.
But in the conversation,
Maybe you just change your mind,
Want to listen,
I estimate that nine times out of ten the other party won't talk further.
The text is written by others,
Whether to read it or not depends on yourself,
It's different to listen to someone's words,
The other party hasn't finished speaking yet,
You get angry and interrupt,
The other party's words are interrupted,
You can't even listen.
So talking is interactive,
And it's easily affected by various factors,
The uncertainty is too great.
Of course, text also has bad places,
Black and white on paper,
Everything you write in the future will be used as "evidence in court",
You can't run away.
Alas, there's nothing else,
It's just that my baby is suffering.
If LP can listen to me,
On the issue of the baby,
Many troubles can also be avoided.
My baby may suffer less.
This doesn't mean that they didn't take good care of the baby,
In terms of taking care of the baby,
Whether it's my LP or my mother-in-law,
They are all very conscientious,
It's just that everyone has their own methods,
My methods are not easy for them to accept,
But I believe,
If we really take care of the baby according to my method,
We should be more relaxed.
Don't compare which method has fewer times the baby gets sick,
This can't be tested,
And can't be compared,
Because they take care very carefully,
Taking care carefully,
Naturally avoid many opportunities for getting sick,
But if you take care too carefully,
One day, if you are not careful, the baby is easy to get sick.
And I mainly start from enhancing the baby's immunity,
Although it seems to take care more roughly,
But it exercises the baby's ability,
Adults can also be more at ease,
The baby won't be so delicate.
Of course, taking care more roughly,
The chance of the baby being infected is also more,
So in terms of the number of illnesses,
Its absolute value may be more than that of taking care carefully.
But my baby's resistance will be stronger,
The physical quality will be better.
When to call?
Tomorrow morning,
It may be better to call when LP is at work.
Originally, there are many variables,
I don't want LP to answer the phone when the mother-in-law is also there,
That's even more difficult to control the situation.
Avoid it if you can.
LP, I used your "avoidance theory" again,
You won't say again,
Oh,
You criticize my avoidance theory,
But you are using it yourself!
In fact, it's different,
If you really understand,
You will understand,
No need for me to explain to you again.
I hope my baby's illness will get better soon.
Baby,
It's dad's fault,
The city gate is on fire, and the fish in the moat suffer.
I pray that you get better soon,
You should also wish mom and dad to reconcile soon, you know?
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『第 6 楼』:
提出离婚的第四天（二）
使用 LLM 解释/回答一下
接下去写太长了，所以另起一篇。
在Netbig.com里的网志里看到一篇文章，标题是：
《不随便牵手，更不随便放手》，
有感于那天晚上LP说“你想结婚就结婚，想离婚就离婚，哪有这么随便的事。”，就仔细看了看那篇文章，并把它转在下面。
来源：《读者》2006年第5期
你发觉了吗？爱的感觉，总是在一开始时甜蜜，总觉得多了一个人陪，多了一个人帮你分担，你终于不再孤单了，因为至少有一个人想着你、恋着你，不论做什么事情，只要能在一起，就是好的。
但是慢慢地，随着认识的加深，你开始发现了对方的缺点，于是问题一个接一个出现，你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避。有人说爱情就像捡石头，总想捡到一个适合自己的，但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？她适合你，那你又适合她吗？
其实，爱情应该像磨石子儿，或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么满意，但是请记住，人是有弹性的，很多事情是可以改变的，只要你有心，有勇气，与其到处去捡未知的石头，还不如将自己已经拥有的石头磨光。你开始磨了吗？很多人以为，是因为感情淡了，人才会变得懒惰，其实人是先被惰性征服，感情才慢慢变淡的。
在某个聚餐的场合，有人提议多吃点虾对身体好，这时候有个中年男人忽然说：“十年前，当我老婆还是我女朋友的时候，她说要吃十只虾，我就剥二十只给她！现在，如果她要我帮她剥虾壳，简直是开玩笑！我连帮她夹菜都没兴趣了，还剥虾壳呢。”
难怪越来越多的人只想谈一辈子恋爱，却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。
如果每个人都懒得讲话，懒得倾听，懒得制造惊喜，懒得温柔体贴，那么夫妻或是情人之间，又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？所以请记住：有活力的爱情，是需要适度殷勤来浇灌的，谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的。
有一对情侣，相约下班后去用餐、逛街，可是女孩因为公司会议延误了，当她冒雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟，她男朋友很不高兴地说：“你每次都这样，现在我什么心情也没了，我以后再也不会等你了！”刹那间，女孩的心决堤崩溃了，她在想：或许，他们再也没有未来了。
同样，在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样的处境，女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，她的男朋友说：“我想你一定忙坏了吧？”接着他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套披在女孩身上，此刻，女孩流泪了。但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨幸福的。
你体会到了吗？其实爱恨往往只在我们的一念之间！爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时，很多事可能只是在于你心境的转变罢了。如果有个人爱上你，而你也觉得他不错，那并不代表你会选择他。
我们总说：“我要找一个很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。”但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，你却无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。
没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。可是后来，当我们猛然回首，才发觉自己曾经多么天真。假如从来没有开始，你怎知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之后才会发现的。每个人都希望找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，但是你有没有想过，在你身边早有人对你默默付出了很久了，只是你没发觉而已。
所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧，他或许已经等你很久了。当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。所有的期待和希望都只有七八分，剩下两三分用来爱自己。如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能给对方造成沉重的压力，让彼此喘不过气来，完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。
所以请记住，喝酒不要超过六分醉，吃饭不要超过七分饱，爱一个人不要超过八分。如果你正在为爱迷惘，下面这段话或许可以给你一些启示：爱一个人，要了解也要开解；要道歉也要道谢；要认错也要改错；要体贴也要体谅；是接受而不是忍受；是宽容而不是纵容；是支持而不是支配；是慰问而不是质问；是倾诉而不是控诉；是难忘而不是遗忘；是彼此交流而不是凡事交代；是为对方默默祈求而不是向对方诸多要求。可以浪漫，但不要浪费，不要随便牵手，更不要随便放手。
有时候一首歌诠释着一段未了的情，谱写出一首伤感的诗。
不要随便牵手，更不要随便放手。
LP，是我不好，
虽然我不是真的想和你分手，
但我却拿这种话来伤你的心，
是我不对。
牵了你的手，
我不会放手的。
请你好好地把手放在我的手里，
勇敢地把自己交给我，
好吗？
The next part is too long, so I start a new post.
I saw an article in the blog on Netbig.com. The title is:
"Don't Hold Hands Casually, and Don't Let Go Casually"
Inspired by my LP saying that night "If you want to get married, you can get married; if you want to get divorced, you can get divorced. How can there be such casual things.", I carefully read that article and transfer it below.
Source: "Reader" Issue 5, 2006
Have you noticed that the feeling of love is always sweet at the beginning. You always feel that there is one more person to accompany you, one more person to share with you, and you are finally no longer alone, because at least there is someone thinking of you and loving you. No matter what you do, as long as you can be together, it's good.
But slowly, as you get to know each other deeper, you start to discover the other party's shortcomings, so problems come one after another. You start to be annoyed, tired, and even want to escape. Some people say that love is like picking up stones. You always want to pick up one that suits you, but how do you know when you can pick it up? She suits you, then do you suit her?
In fact, love should be like polishing pebbles. Maybe when you just pick it up, you are not so satisfied. But remember, people are flexible, many things can be changed. As long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere, it is better to polish the stone you already have. Have you started polishing? Many people think that because the relationship fades, people become lazy. In fact, people are first conquered by inertia, and then the relationship fades slowly.
At a certain dinner gathering, someone suggested eating more shrimp is good for the body. At this time, a middle-aged man suddenly said: "Ten years ago, when my wife was still my girlfriend, she said she wanted to eat ten shrimps, and I would peel twenty for her! Now, if she wants me to peel the shrimp shells for her, it's just a joke! I don't even have the interest to pick food for her, let alone peel the shrimp shells."
No wonder more and more people just want to talk about love for a lifetime but are reluctant to enter marriage. Because marriage can easily make people lazy.
If everyone is too lazy to talk, too lazy to listen, too lazy to create surprises, too lazy to be gentle and considerate, then how can couples or lovers not drift apart gradually? So please remember: A vibrant love needs to be watered with appropriate殷勤. It is also impossible to be lazy in falling in love.
There was a couple who made an appointment to have a meal and go shopping after work. But the girl was delayed by a company meeting. When she arrived in the rain, she was more than 30 minutes late. Her boyfriend was very unhappy and said: "You are always like this. Now I have no mood at all. I will never wait for you again in the future!" Instantly, the girl's heart broke down. She was thinking: Maybe, they will never have a future again.
Similarly, in the same place, another couple also faced the same situation. The girl arrived half an hour late too. Her boyfriend said: "I think you must have been very busy!" Then he wiped the rain off the girl's face and took off his coat to put it on the girl. At this moment, the girl shed tears. But the tears flowing down her cheek were warm and happy.
Do you feel it? In fact, love and hate are often just in our one thought! Love not only needs to know how to be tolerant but also in time. Many things may just lie in the change of your mood. If someone falls in love with you and you also think he is not bad, that doesn't mean you will choose him.
We always say: "I want to find someone I love very, very much before I will fall in love." But when the other party asks you, how to be considered as loving very, very much, you can't answer him, because you don't know it yourself.
Yes, we always think that we will find someone we love very, very much. But later, when we look back suddenly, we realize how naive we were. If there has never been a start, how do you know if you will love that person very, very much? In fact, the feeling of loving very, very much is to be discovered after experiencing many things together. Everyone hopes to find their 100% partner in their mind. But have you ever thought that there has been someone silently paying for you for a long time by your side, but you just haven't noticed it?
So, still take a close look at the people around you. He may have been waiting for you for a long time. When you love someone, loving to eight points is just right. All expectations and hopes are only seven or eight points, and the remaining two or three points are used to love yourself. If you continue to love more, it is very likely to cause heavy pressure on the other party, make each other out of breath, and completely lose the fun of love.
So please remember, don't get more than six points drunk when drinking, don't eat more than seven points full when eating, and don't love someone more than eight points. If you are confused about love, the following passage may give you some inspiration: To love someone, you need to understand and also to enlighten; to apologize and also to say thanks; to admit mistakes and also to correct mistakes; to be considerate and also to be understanding; it is to accept instead of enduring; it is to be tolerant instead of indulging; it is to support instead of dominating; it is to condole instead of interrogate; it is to pour out instead of accuse; it is to remember unforgettably instead of forgetting; it is to communicate with each other instead of explaining everything; it is to silently pray for the other party instead of making many demands on the other party. It can be romantic, but don't waste. Don't hold hands casually, and don't let go casually.
Sometimes a song interprets an unfinished love and composes a sad poem.
Don't hold hands casually, and don't let go casually.
LP, it's my fault.
Although I don't really want to break up with you,
but I hurt your heart with such words,
it's my fault.
Held your hand,
I won't let go.
Please put your hand in mine well,
bravely give yourself to me,
okay?
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『第 7 楼』:
提出离婚的第五天
使用 LLM 解释/回答一下
今天是6月6日，是我提出离婚的第五天。
早上醒来喉咙有点痛，
我的扁桃体又发炎了。
迷迷胡胡中听到电视的声音，
顺手关掉了。
然后躺在床上半梦半醒的，
又想LP和宝宝。
不知道突然怎么想起的，
我真是该死，
我完全忘记了6月2日LP有两场考试。
完了，
她肯定没去考这两场，
有谁在头天晚上经过这么一场大的风波后第二天还有精神去应付些这样的东东？
我真是该死，
我怎么就忘记这事了呢？
我要吵架也好，
要逼LP去认真考虑我俩的生活也好，
就不能晚一天吗？
就不能等LP考完这两场考试吗？
LP要用的那两本参考书也还躺在我的书架上，
她以前跟我说，
过一段时间我要考试了，
记得有空帮我把那两本书带回来，
我却一直没放在心上。
我有关心过我LP吗？
我怎么就不记得她要考试了这回事呢？
那两天也不知道发什么神经，
因为一点点小事就和LP赌气，
结果越闹越大，
后来居然一门心思在“离婚”上面，
我是不是也太自私了？
如果说当时我能多为LP想一点，
自然不会忘记她要去考试，
如果我能多为LP想一点，
也不会发神经去闹这么一场“离婚”。
唉，当时要是能找个人倾诉一下就好了，
讲完了自然就轻松了，
说不定这个念头就打消了。
如果我讲出去了，
不管是跟谁讲的，
别人也肯定会劝我打消这个念头的。
问题是我能跟谁讲？
谁也不能讲，
谁也不能说。
这也是长期以来我比较郁闷的一件事。
夫妻之间没法很好的沟通，
又不能向别人讲，
不要说是外人了，
就是亲人也不能讲，
其实亲人还更不能讲。
再者，再亲的亲人相对于夫妻两人来说都是“外人”，
LP的别称中不是有一个是叫“内人”的吗？
所以说，
LP才是真正的“自己人”，其它人都只能是“外人”，
夫妻之间的事是不足于外人道的。
总之，
提出离婚是我的不对，
虽然我的想法并不真的要离婚，
但在那个时候提出来是错上加错。
对不起，LP 。
这么想着，
于是再也睡不着了，
打开本本把这段想法记下来。
在这之前，
没开电脑之前，
我起来找到我的手机，
想看看到底几点了，
结果遇上一件我非常堵心的事。
我找到了我的手机，
一看上面有条短消息，
还是LP发过来的。
我还以为LP要和我商量以后怎么过日子的事呢，
或者是告诉我宝宝生病了的事，
结果打开一看，
是催我还钱的事。
这事还要从前面说起，
前一阵子不是股市火得一塌糊涂吗？
我的基金也涨得比较好，
然后我和LP都觉得，
有钱放在银行那纯粹是浪费，
利息还没通货膨胀厉害，
放在银行贬值还不如拿出来炒基金。
结果不知道LP怎么说动了丈母娘，
她把自己多年积蓄的十一万人民币交给了我。
我心想基金风险不大，
我就当是帮她理财好了，
赚了的都归她，
万一要是亏，
应该也亏不了多少，
前段时间反正我的基金也涨了不少，
到时我贴点钱给她就是了，
至少保证她一个不少于定期利率的收益吧。
于是我就收下了，
在5月30日去买了一个基金。
当时把她全部的钱都投进去了，
因为我当时是作为帮她做投资，
所以没有掺和我的钱进去，
以后算收益的时候好算些。
钱大概是5月25日给我的吧，
（去查查我的账户里什么时候多出这11万就知道）
结果在5月31日晚上，
就在出事前一天的晚上，
我和LP躺在床上我正准备睡觉的时候，
我LP拿出一叠纸和一支笔对我说，
老妈给了你那些钱，
你写个借条还是什么的字据给她吧。
我当时心里有点不高兴，
难道我会吃掉你们这点钱不成？
但是这是手续问题，
跟钱打交道正规一点没错，
牵涉到账务上的事最好是手续清楚，齐全，
所以我也没说什么，
写就写呗。
我还特别正规地写得清清楚楚的。
如果要你写会怎么写？
今借到XX人XXXX元，然后落款和日期？
我是这么写的：
今借到XFD人民币现金XXXXX元整（小写￥xxxxxx.xx元）。一年内（自借款日算起）归还本息。利息按现行一年定期利率执行。 借款人：YLN 日期 2007年5月25日 二○○七年五月二十五日
其中有一点我不太满意的是，
没有写清到底是存款利率还是贷款利率，
当然一般默认是存款利率了，
再说如果是贷款应该没有一年定期这种说法吧，
我不是搞金融的，不太清楚这些。
为什么写得这么清楚，
当然和我一贯严谨的作风有关，
（在金钱方面我爸教育我就是要清楚，严谨）
还有就是我有点生气有关了。
写得清楚一些，
大家都放心，对吧？
写好了就叫LP去交给她老妈了。
这下倒好，
成了我借钱了，
还好我写的是自借款日计一年内还清，
要不她这一催债，
我一下去哪拿这么多钱给她。
昨天我把自己的基金抛掉了，
应该有8万左右的资金回来
加上我现在还有2万左右的原来准备进股市的钱，
一共就10万吧，
还差一点呢。
再说基金赎回要一个星期后才能到账，
现在是拿不出钱来的。
我LP真是对基金一点都不懂，
上次只告诉她说基金风险小，
然后不象股票一样如果跌停想卖都卖不出去，
基金是你想赎回就可以赎回，
钱要一个礼拜后到账就是。
我还漏了一个非常重要的事没告诉她，
就是新基金有一段封闭期，
刚买的头三个月（一般是三个月，但多数基金会提前解除封闭）是不能赎回的。
现在找我要钱，
不是要我的老命？
唉。
做人难，
做好人更难啊。
早知道就教会LP炒基金，
让她去帮她老妈炒，
我不就不会惹出这么麻烦的事来？
等到十点钟左右给LP打个电话吧，
十点以前说不定LP在带宝宝去医院打针，
晚了的话说不定又回家了。
我可不想她接电话的时候我丈母娘在场。
这下被动了，
呆会LP还以为我是接到短信后才给她打电话的呢。
不管了，
吃早饭去，
饿死了。
现在不按时吃饭就很饿。
顺便买两包板蓝根来治治我的扁桃体炎。
看着自己的QQ车，
还是决定走路去过早。
走到加油站的时候，
看到一对年轻的夫妻在散步，
女的挺着个大肚子，
两个人有说有笑地走着。
突然就想起以前LP怀宝宝的时候。
还有前天在超市里，
看到几个抱着小宝宝的妈妈，
挺着肚子的准妈妈，
心里就特别想我自己的LP的宝宝。
就跟MS说的一样，
那时他的宝宝不在身边带，
他看到别人的宝宝就会特别想自己的。
到了HNFMG，
叫了一份肥肠粉。
其实专门去那里吃，
主要还是想问问老板他那醋瓶子是哪买的。
结果一问，
是厂家送的，
难怪在超市里找不到。
吃完粉，
跟老板说送我一个醋瓶子，
老板很爽快地答应了。
找零钱的时候，
我说，不用找了，
我可不白拿你的东西。
老板笑了笑，
也就没坚持。
得到寻觅已久的瓶子，
我心里还是蛮高兴的。
LP，
你看到这里的话，
（如果你能看到的话，）
一定又会笑我太迂腐了。
10点了，该打电话了。
没人接。
电视里正在演《上海滩》，
丁力正在给冯程程讲他的故事，
说他小时候经常被父亲打骂，
他心里很恨自己的父亲，
一心想咒他死，
还以为是上天可怜他，
过了不久，
他父亲死了，
他以为他会很高兴，
可实际他抱着他妈哭了一天。
毕竟是自己的父亲，
再怎么着也是自己的父亲。
结果冯程程听了丁力的劝，
回去跟他父亲和好了。
LP，
这段故事记在这里，
你应该会知道是什么意思。
一是父亲毕竟是父亲，要多想着点父亲对自己的好。
二是，我们夫妻也毕竟是夫妻，我不想我们之间再互相赌气了。
刚才打通了电话，
LP对我冷冰冰的，
这也是我预料之中的事，
谁让我那天这样伤了她的心呢，
这是我活该。
但是我还是应该努力和她交流，
不能不让她了解这事情的真相，
不能让她再稀里糊涂地伤心下去，
我其实并不想分手，
我其实还是想和她好好过的。
不管怎样，
我决定把网址发给她，
希望她能上来看看，
了解我的想法，
不再伤心难过。
至于看了之后原不原谅我，
那我只好祈祷了。
不管原不原谅，
至少你不会因为不了解而继续伤心难过就好。
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Today is June 6th, the fifth day since I proposed divorce.
Woke up in the morning with a sore throat,
My tonsils are inflamed again.
In a drowsy state, I heard the sound of the TV,
And casually turned it off.
Then I lay in bed half asleep and half awake,
Thinking of my LP and baby again.
I don't know how I suddenly thought of it,
I'm really damn it,
I completely forgot that LP had two exams on June 2nd.
Oh no,
She must not have taken those two exams,
Who can have the energy to deal with such things the next day after such a big storm the night before?
I'm really damn it,
Why did I forget this?
Whether I want to quarrel or force LP to seriously consider our life,
Can't it be a day later?
Can't I wait until LP finishes these two exams?
The two reference books that LP needs are still lying on my bookshelf,
She told me before,
In a while I will have an exam, remember to bring those two books back for me when you have time,
But I never took it to heart.
Did I care about my LP?
Why don't I remember that she was going to take an exam?
I don't know what was wrong with me those two days,
I was angry with LP over a little thing,
And it got bigger and bigger,
Later I actually focused on "divorce",
Am I too selfish?
If I could think more about LP at that time,
Naturally I wouldn't forget that she was going to take an exam,
If I could think more about LP,
I wouldn't be crazy to make such a "divorce".
Alas, if only I could find someone to talk to at that time,
I would feel轻松 after talking,
Maybe this idea would be dispelled.
If I told someone,
No matter who I told,
Others would definitely persuade me to dispel this idea.
The problem is who can I tell?
No one can tell,
No one can say.
This is also a very depressed thing for me for a long time.
There is no good communication between husband and wife,
And I can't tell others,
Not to mention outsiders,
Even relatives can't tell,
In fact, relatives are even less able to tell.
Moreover, no matter how close relatives are, they are all "outsiders" compared to the couple,
Isn't one of the nicknames for LP called "inner person"?
So,
LP is the real "own person", and others can only be "outsiders",
Things between husband and wife should not be told to outsiders.
In short,
Proposing divorce is my fault,
Although my idea is not really to divorce,
But it was a mistake to mention it at that time.
I'm sorry, LP.
Thinking this way,
I can't sleep anymore,
I turned on the notebook and wrote down this thought.
Before this,
Before turning on the computer,
I got up and found my phone,
I wanted to see what time it was,
And then I encountered a very stuffy thing.
I found my phone,
And saw there was a text message,
Still sent by LP.
I thought LP was going to discuss with me how to live in the future,
Or tell me that the baby was sick,
But when I opened it,
It was about urging me to pay back the money.
This matter has to be traced back to before,
A while ago, wasn't the stock market very hot?
My fund also rose relatively well,
Then my LP and I both thought,
Putting money in the bank is purely a waste,
The interest is not as strong as inflation,
Putting it in the bank to depreciate is better than taking it out to speculate in funds.
As a result, I don't know how LP persuaded her mother-in-law,
She gave me 110,000 yuan in RMB that she had saved for many years.
I thought the fund risk was not big,
I would just help her manage the money,
All the profits belong to her,
In case it loses,
It shouldn't lose much,
Anyway, my fund has risen a lot in the previous period,
Then I will post some money to her,
At least ensure her a return not less than the fixed deposit interest rate.
So I accepted it,
Bought a fund on May 30th.
At that time, I invested all her money,
Because I was acting as her investment,
So I didn't mix my money in,
It's easier to calculate the income later.
The money was probably given to me on May 25th,
(Check when 110,000 yuan appeared in my account to know)
Result on the evening of May 31st,
The night before the accident,
When I was lying in bed with my LP and was about to sleep,
My LP took out a stack of papers and a pen and said to me,
Mom gave you that money,
You write an IOU or something to her.
I was a little unhappy at that time,
Could I eat up this little money of yours?
But this is a formalities issue,
It's right to be more formal when dealing with money,
It's best to have clear and complete formalities for financial matters,
So I didn't say anything,
Just write it.
I also wrote it very formally and clearly.
How would you write it if you were asked to write it?
I borrowed XXXX yuan from XX person, then the signature and date?
This is how I wrote it:
I borrowed XFD 10,000 yuan in cash (in numbers ￥xxxxxx.xx yuan). Return the principal and interest within one year (calculated from the borrowing date). The interest is implemented according to the current one-year fixed deposit interest rate. Borrower: YLN Date May 25, 2007 May 25, 2007
There is one thing I am not satisfied with,
It didn't clearly state whether it was the deposit interest rate or the loan interest rate,
Of course, the default is the deposit interest rate,
Besides, if it's a loan, there shouldn't be the saying of one-year fixed deposit,
I'm not in finance, I don't know these things very well.
Why write it so clearly,
Of course it has to do with my consistent rigorous style,
(My father taught me to be clear and rigorous in terms of money)
And also because I was a little angry.
Write it clearly,
Everyone will be at ease, right?
After writing it, I asked LP to give it to her mother.
Now it's good,
It has become that I borrowed money,
Fortunately, I wrote that it will be paid back within one year from the borrowing date,
Otherwise, with her urging to pay back the debt,
Where would I get so much money to give her at once.
Yesterday I sold my fund,
There should be about 80,000 yuan of funds back
Plus I still have about 20,000 yuan of the original money that was going to enter the stock market,
A total of 100,000 yuan?
Still a little short.
Besides, the fund redemption will not arrive in the account for a week,
I can't take out the money now.
My LP really doesn't understand funds at all,
Last time I just told her that the fund risk is small,
And unlike stocks, if it's a limit down, you can't sell it if you want to sell it,
The fund can be redeemed if you want,
The money will arrive in the account after a week.
I also missed a very important thing not telling her,
That is, the new fund has a closing period,
The first three months after just buying (generally three months, but most funds will lift the closing in advance) cannot be redeemed.
Now asking me for money,
Isn't it killing me?
Alas.
It's hard to be a person,
It's even harder to be a good person.
If I had known earlier, I would have taught LP to speculate in funds,
Let her help her mother-in-law speculate,
Wouldn't I have caused such a big mess?
I'll call LP around ten o'clock,
Before ten o'clock, maybe LP is taking the baby to the hospital for an injection,
If it's late, maybe she's home again.
I don't want her mother-in-law to be present when she answers the phone.
Now I'm in a passive situation,
Later LP will think that I called her after receiving the text message.
No matter,
Go have breakfast,
I'm starving.
I get very hungry if I don't eat on time now.
By the way, buy two packs of Banlangen to treat my tonsillitis.
Looking at my QQ car,
Still decided to walk to have breakfast.
When I walked to the gas station,
I saw a young couple walking,
The woman was pregnant,
The two were walking and talking happily.
Suddenly I thought of when LP was pregnant with the baby.
And the other day in the supermarket,
I saw several mothers holding babies,
Pregnant mothers with big bellies,
I especially missed my own LP's baby.
Just like MS said,
At that time his baby was not with him,
He would especially miss his own when he saw other people's babies.
Arrived at HNFMG,
Ordered a bowl of pork intestine powder.
In fact, I went there specially to eat,
Mainly to ask the boss where he bought that vinegar bottle.
As a result, I asked,
It was sent by the manufacturer,
No wonder I couldn't find it in the supermarket.
After eating the powder,
I told the boss to give me a vinegar bottle,
The boss readily agreed.
When changing the change,
I said, don't give me the change,
I'm not taking your things for nothing.
The boss smiled,
And didn't insist.
Got the bottle I had been looking for,
I was still quite happy.
LP,
If you see this,
(If you can see it,)
You must laugh at me for being too pedantic again.
It's ten o'clock, time to make the call.
No one answered.
"Shanghai Bund" was being shown on TV,
Ding Li was telling Feng Chengcheng his story,
Saying that he was often beaten and scolded by his father when he was a child,
He hated his father very much,
He was determined to curse him to death,
And thought that God pitied him,
Not long after, his father died,
He thought he would be very happy,
But actually he cried with his mother for a day.
After all, he was his father,
No matter what, he was his father.
As a result, Feng Chengcheng listened to Ding Li's persuasion,
Went back and made up with his father.
LP,
This story is recorded here,
You should know what it means.
First, the father is after all the father, and we should think more about the father's kindness to us.
Second, after all, we are husband and wife, and I don't want to be angry with each other anymore.
Just now I got through the phone,
LP was cold to me,
This is also what I expected,
Who made me hurt her heart like that that day,
I deserved it.
But I should still try to communicate with her,
Can't let her not understand the truth of this matter,
Can't let her continue to be sad in a muddle,
I don't really want to break up,
I really still want to live well with her.
Anyway,
I decided to send her the website,
Hope she can come up and have a look,
Understand my thoughts,
No longer be sad.
As for whether she forgives me or not after reading it,
Then I can only pray.
No matter whether she forgives me or not,
At least you won't continue to be sad because you don't understand.
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『第 8 楼』:
提出离婚的第六天
使用 LLM 解释/回答一下
今天是6月7日，是我提出离婚后的第六天。
昨天不是动了让她看Blog的念头吗？
后来一想，我LP挺不爱看电脑的，
我就把Blog里的内容复制到Word里，排好版，把字体设大一点，保存在U盘里，带到打印室去打。
一开始是个喷墨打印，打的字有点变形，打着打着没墨了，还剩4页打不下去了，
换了一家，准备打后面4页，打出来一看，激光打印的效果就是好，索性把前8页也重打一份，看得舒服些。
打完了，我就开着我的破QQ回JAX了。
在LP单位门口打了个电话给LP，
想见她一面，
LP说现在有事，很忙。
我说没关系，我等。
我困死了，
在车上睡了一个小时，
都快五点了，
后来五点四十左右，LP出来了。
这几天的时间，
LP就瘦得不成样子了。
LP上了车，
我也不知道该说什么，
LP问你要带我到哪里去，
我说，
我们去水库旁边走走吧。
到了水库，
我停了车，
LP说不必下去走，
你不是有话跟我说吗？
车上说就可以了。
我给LP道歉，
LP说，
别来这一套，
我原谅过你多少回了？
你改了吗？
我说我不是正在改吗？
那天是我一时犯糊涂，
我错了。
LP说，
你要是一时冲动就好了，
我也能原谅你，
可是你不是。
你是蓄意策划好了，
你连父母都带过来了，
当着四个老人的面你这样羞辱我。
我不知道怎么安慰我LP，
我那样做的确是太混了。
说我是蓄意的也没冤枉我，
可我那时犯了混，
一心只往这死胡同钻才会这样，
其实还是一时没想明白，一时冲动才做出了这么伤害LP的事啊。
虽然看似是神志清醒，
但其实并不是真心想闹事的，
怎么说呢，
一时猪油蒙了心，
才会做这样的傻事。
我怀着一个小小的希望，
小心翼翼地问道，
上午发给你的网址，你看了吗？
LP说，
看了，
上午看了一遍，
下午又看了一遍，
没看出你有认识到你错了的地方啊。
倒一直在说我的不是，说我老妈的不是。
唉，
我晕啊。。。
LP问我有什么话讲，
你不是特意来跟我有话要讲吗？
怎么只是我在讲，你不讲呢？
我说，
LP，你知道我没有口才，
我不会讲话，
我又怕你不愿在电脑上看帖子，
所以我把它打出来了，
本来想送给你看的，
没想你已经看过了。
我想说的话大部分在上面已经说过了，
我现在也想不出更多的了，
我只希望我们能好好地在一起过日子。
LP说我怕了跟你一起过，
我建议你还是去看看心理医生，
心理健全的人不会象你这样。
我只好说，
先不谈这些了，
时候不早了，
我送你回去，
宝宝在家里肯定等着你下班回家呢。
LP到了家门口，
说，
你不必下车了，
回去好好想想吧。
我有心回去看看我的宝宝，
可现在这种状况我真的不知道进去看宝宝她们会不会让。
我回到爸妈家里，
胡乱吃了碗饭，
饭后跟爸爸一起去散步，
跟他汇报了一下我的情况。
爸爸说，
现在别的先不说，
你们俩能在一起，不要分开就好。
夫妻之间的兴趣爱好，共同语言都可以慢慢培养，
在一起好好过，
一起感受家的温暖，家的温馨，
以后日子就会越过越顺。
今天上班的时候忙死了，
难得这样的大暴雨，
一直下了一上午，
结果大家都忙着抗洪了。
机房里到处是水，
排污坑里的水排不赢，
越涨越高。
那些电机和电气柜都有进水的危险，
连电气配电间都有被淹的可能。
下班的时候，
有一段路都被水淹没了，
大客车冲过去，
水花往两边濺起老高。
晚上的时候，
我给LP打电话，
手机没人接。
我打丈母娘家的座机，
丈母娘接的电话。
我叫了句，妈。
然后就低头认错。
丈母娘倒也没穷追猛打，
先是数落了我的不是，
然后说，
女儿原谅你，
我也没意见。
就看她的意思了。
但是你怎么开的场就怎么收场，
你那天带着你父母来，
那哪天也带着他们来当着他们的面给我女儿道歉。
我说，行，
我一定照办。
从哪里跌倒就从哪里爬起来嘛。
我突然觉得，
自己也蛮小人的，
其实丈母娘对我真的是很不错的。
我原以为她会狠狠批我一顿的呢，
想到那天我写的宁拆十座庙那一段，
我真是误会了我丈母娘。
这就是 以小人之心度君子之腹吧。
丈母娘叫我LP来接电话，
LP的态度还是有点不依不挠，
我也很理解，
毕竟我伤她伤得太深了。
应该说我LP从小就没受过什么挫折，
我这么一闹，
给她刺激太大了，
她肯和我讲话我就谢天谢地了，
我一定要好好改正自己的错误，
以自己的真心真意来打动LP，
以后再也不犯以前的臭毛病了。
明天就是第七天了，
我会找三首与七有关的歌贴出来。
七，
是一个完结的数字，
希望明天有个好的结局。
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Today is June 7th, the sixth day since I proposed the divorce.
Didn't I have the idea of letting her read the Blog yesterday?
Later, I thought that my wife doesn't like to look at the computer much.
I copied the content of the Blog into Word, formatted it, set the font larger, saved it on a USB flash drive, and took it to the printing room to print.
At first, it was an inkjet print, and the printed words were a bit distorted. Then the ink ran out, and there were still 4 pages left to print.
I went to another place and was going to print the remaining 4 pages. When I saw the result, the laser print effect was really good. So I simply reprinted the first 8 pages, which looked more comfortable.
After printing, I drove my broken QQ back to JAX.
I called my wife at the entrance of her unit.
I wanted to see her.
My wife said she was busy with something now.
I said it was okay, I could wait.
I was so sleepy.
I slept in the car for an hour.
It was almost five o'clock.
Then around 5:40, my wife came out.
In these few days,
my wife has become extremely thin.
My wife got in the car.
I didn't know what to say.
My wife asked where I was taking her.
I said,
let's go for a walk by the reservoir.
When we arrived at the reservoir,
I parked the car.
My wife said there was no need to go down for a walk.
Didn't I have something to say to her?
We could talk in the car.
I apologized to my wife.
My wife said,
don't play this trick.
How many times have I forgiven you?
Have you changed?
I said I was changing.
That day I was confused for a moment.
I was wrong.
My wife said,
if it was just an impulse, it would be okay.
I could forgive you.
But you aren't.
You planned it on purpose.
You even brought your parents here.
You humiliated me in front of four elders like that.
I didn't know how to comfort my wife.
What I did was really messed up.
Saying I did it on purpose isn't wronged me.
But I was messed up at that time.
Only by drilling into this dead end did I do this.
Actually, I just didn't think clearly for a moment and did such a hurtful thing to my wife out of impulse.
Although it seemed I was sober,
but actually I didn't really want to make trouble.
How to say it?
I was muddle-headed for a moment,
才会 do such a silly thing.
I had a small hope and cautiously asked,
have you seen the website I sent you in the morning?
My wife said,
yes,
I read it once in the morning and again in the afternoon.
I didn't see that you realized your mistake.
You've been talking about my faults and my mother's faults all the time.
Alas,
I was dizzy...
My wife asked me what else I had to say.
Didn't you特意 come to talk to me?
Why is it just me talking and you not talking?
I said,
wife, you know I'm not good at talking.
I can't speak well.
I was also afraid you wouldn't want to read the post on the computer.
So I printed it out.
I originally wanted to give it to you to read.
I didn't expect you've already read it.
Most of what I wanted to say has been said above.
I can't think of more now.
I just hope we can live together well.
My wife said I'm afraid to live with you.
I suggest you go see a psychologist.
A mentally healthy person wouldn't be like you.
I had to say,
let's not talk about this now.
It's getting late.
I'll take you back.
The baby must be waiting for you to come home from work at home.
When my wife arrived at the door,
she said,
you don't need to get out of the car.
Go back and think it over.
I wanted to go in and see my baby,
but I really don't know if they would let me in under the current situation.
I went back to my parents' home.
I randomly ate a bowl of rice.
After the meal, I went for a walk with my father and reported my situation to him.
My father said,
now let's not talk about other things first.
As long as you two can be together and not separate, that's good.
Hobbies and common language between husband and wife can be cultivated slowly.
Live together well and feel the warmth and coziness of the family together.
The days will get smoother in the future.
I was extremely busy at work today.
It was such a heavy rain难得,
it rained all morning.
As a result, everyone was busy with flood control.
There was water everywhere in the computer room.
The water in the sewage pit couldn't be drained in time and kept rising.
There was a risk of water entering those motors and electrical cabinets.
Even the electrical distribution room might be flooded.
When I got off work,
a section of the road was submerged by water.
The coach drove through,
and the water splashed high on both sides.
In the evening,
I called my wife.
Her phone wasn't answered.
I called the landline at my mother-in-law's home.
My mother-in-law answered the phone.
I called out, Mom.
Then I bowed my head to apologize.
My mother-in-law didn't keep pressing.
She first criticized my faults.
Then she said,
if the daughter forgives you, I have no objection.
It's up to her.
But you started the matter the way you did, and you should end it the way you started.
You brought your parents here that day.
Then bring them here another day to apologize to my daughter in front of them.
I said, okay,
I will definitely do as you say.
Where I fell, I will get up from there.
I suddenly felt that I was quite petty.
Actually, my mother-in-law has been really good to me.
I thought she would scold me severely.
Thinking of the part I wrote about "宁拆十座庙" that day,
I really misunderstood my mother-in-law.
This is 以小人之心度君子之腹.
My mother-in-law asked my wife to answer the phone.
My wife's attitude was still a bit unrelenting.
I also understand.
After all, I hurt her too deeply.
It should be said that my wife has never suffered much setbacks since she was a child.
My making such a scene gave her too much stimulation.
I'm grateful that she is willing to talk to me.
I must correct my mistakes well.
Use my sincerity to move my wife.
Never make the previous bad habits again.
Tomorrow will be the seventh day.
I will post three songs related to seven.
Seven is a finishing number.
Hope there will be a good ending tomorrow.
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提出离婚的第七天
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今天是6月8日，是我提出离婚后的第七天。
今天不想写什么，
只把几首歌词贴在下面。
歌名：How many times
歌手： 马郁
心到我们之间
就觉得疲倦
所以这份感情
是我自己一厢情愿
爱的路辛苦
你是永远不了解
怎么不在乎
我也永远学不会
看着我们之间
总觉得好远
似乎这段感情
你有无有都无所谓
你心的错误
我总试着看不见
你却放任它
一再反复的重演
七滴眼泪
才能代表一次伤悲
七次伤悲
才能算得上一次心碎
七次心碎
才能换来你的后悔
而七次后悔
才能让我不再为你流眼泪
看着我们之间
总觉得好远
似乎这段感情
你有无有都无所谓
你心的错误
我总试着看不见
你却放任它
一再反复的重演
七滴眼泪
才能代表一次伤悲
七次伤悲
才能算得上一次心碎
七次心碎
才能换来你的后悔
而七次后悔
才能让我不再为你流眼泪
七滴眼泪
才能代表一次伤悲
七次伤悲
才能算得上一次心碎
七次心碎
才能换来你的后悔
而七次后悔
才能让我不再为你流眼泪
歌名:七天七世纪
歌手:李天华 专辑:七天七世纪
一个星期没有你的消息
我想你想得快疯了自己
如果一秒是一天的印记
我已过了七个世纪
夜夜都梦见你奔向我的怀里
说今生我们再也不分离
而醒来后你依然没有踪迹
思念浸透整个身体
如果爱犯了错
注定要忍受寂寞
如果错要承受结果
我宁愿面对不要逃避
哦...七个世纪
泪滚过记忆
我恨我自己怎么就丢了你
只怪世人把爱情渲染太过美丽
为何失去比得到容易
哦,七个世纪
全都是冬季
就算是惩罚也到了绝地
但愿每个夜里闭上眼都是你
我宁愿长眠
不要醒来...
歌名：离开你七天
歌手：张学友
词：姚若龙 曲：李正帆
编曲：屠颖 制作：林明阳
离开你的头一天 不太习惯没人管的感觉
不知道怎麼打发多的时间 有点後悔分手话说的太绝
离开你的第二天 整晚泡在小酒馆找新鲜
寂寞的男人女人互相安慰 没人在乎到明天谁是谁
爱了又吵 吵了又爱 苦辣酸甜
痛了又想 想了又痛 回到原点
爱情永远有得我学 毕不了业
陈年老友好久不见约了七点 听听别人怎麼赚钱怎麼消遣
喝足吃饱卡拉 OK 不爽不归 糢糊想起不见好像有三天
离开你第四天 找不到人陪我再疯一夜
才发觉自己朋友少的可怜 关在家里一晚上抽半条烟
离开你第五天 压抑不了像浪潮的思念
开著车在你门外不停兜圈 直到天亮才警觉我多狼狈
乱的头发红的眼睛胡渣满脸 相爱相恋每个画面 历历重演
就像昏迷看到一生 经过眼前 清楚记得和你分别已六天
离开你只短短七天 我的人像老了七岁
从来不肯承认自己不对 但是这一次我真的诚心忏悔
离开你只短短七天 我的心成熟了七岁
如果你肯慢慢了解 我的爱变了变得更真更坚决
Today is June 8th, the seventh day since I filed for divorce.
I don't want to write anything today,
Just post a few song lyrics below.
Song title: How many times
Singer: Ma Yu
The heart arrives between us,
Feels tired,
So this relationship,
Is my own wishful thinking,
The road of love is hard,
You never understand,
How can you not care,
I will never learn,
Looking at between us,
Always feel so far away,
It seems that this relationship,
You don't care whether you have it or not,
The mistake in your heart,
I always try to not see,
You let it,
Repeatedly repeat,
Seven tears,
Can only represent a sadness,
Seven sadneses,
Can only be regarded as a heartbreak,
Seven heartbreaks,
Can only exchange for your regret,
And seven regrets,
Can only make me stop crying for you,
Looking at between us,
Always feel so far away,
It seems that this relationship,
You don't care whether you have it or not,
The mistake in your heart,
I always try to not see,
You let it,
Repeatedly repeat,
Seven tears,
Can only represent a sadness,
Seven sadneses,
Can only be regarded as a heartbreak,
Seven heartbreaks,
Can only exchange for your regret,
And seven regrets,
Can only make me stop crying for you,
Seven tears,
Can only represent a sadness,
Seven sadneses,
Can only be regarded as a heartbreak,
Seven heartbreaks,
Can only exchange for your regret,
And seven regrets,
Can only make me stop crying for you
Song title: Seven Days Seven Centuries
Singer: Li Tianhua Album: Seven Days Seven Centuries
One week without your news,
I miss you so much I'm going crazy,
If one second is a mark of one day,
I've passed seven centuries,
Every night I dream of you running into my arms,
Saying we'll never part in this life,
And when I wake up you're still not there,
Missingness soaks through my whole body,
If love makes a mistake,
Destined to endure loneliness,
If mistake has to bear the result,
I'd rather face it than escape,
Oh... seven centuries,
Tears roll through memory,
I hate myself for losing you,
Only blame the world for rendering love too beautiful,
Why is losing easier than gaining,
Oh, seven centuries,
All are winter,
Even if it's punishment it's reached the bottom,
I hope every night when I close my eyes it's you,
I'd rather sleep forever,
Don't wake up...
Song title: Seven Days Away From You
Singer: Jacky Cheung
Lyrics: Yao Ruolong Composer: Li Zhengfan
Arrangement: Tu Ying Production: Lin Mingyang
The first day away from you, not used to the feeling of no one to control,
Don't know how to pass the extra time, a little regret that the breakup words were too extreme,
The second day away from you, stayed up all night in the tavern looking for something new,
Lonely men and women comfort each other, no one cares who is who tomorrow
Loved and quarreled, quarreled and loved, bitter and sweet,
Hurt and thought, thought and hurt, back to the starting point,
Love always has more for me to learn, can't graduate
Old friends I haven't seen for a long time made an appointment at seven o'clock, listen to how others make money and how to pass the time,
Had enough to eat and drink, KTV until not satisfied to go home, vaguely remembered that it seems to have been three days since I didn't see you
Fourth day away from you, couldn't find anyone to accompany me to go crazy all night,
Only then did I realize that I have very few friends, stayed at home all night and smoked half a pack of cigarettes,
Fifth day away from you, couldn't suppress the longing like a tide,
Drove around your door不停circling until dawn才realized how embarrassed I was
Messy hair, red eyes, beard all over my face, every scene of falling in love and being in love, repeatedly replaying,
Just like seeing a lifetime when unconscious, passing in front of my eyes, clearly remembering that it's been six days since I parted with you
Only seven days away from you, my person is like seven years older,
Never willing to admit that I'm wrong, but this time I really sincerely repent,
Only seven days away from you, my heart has matured seven years,
If you are willing to understand slowly, my love has changed to be more sincere and resolute
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结婚纪念日
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今天是6月28日，是我和LP结婚三周年纪念日。
我本来是想要换个班的，
然后晚上有空和LP在一起庆祝一下。
可是跟LP一说，
LP说没必要，
明天是周五，
她明天晚上过来我这边过周末。
也不差这一天。
书上教我说要尊重LP的意见，
不要把自己觉得好的计划强加于LP，
那我就等着明天接她过来渡周末好了。
上午到市场买菜，
LP喜欢吃丝瓜，
买了两条。
又买了一条苦瓜，一点肉。
LP也喜欢吃饺子，
我又买了点肉，一点韭菜，一个包菜。
买了面粉，
回家自己包饺子。
揉面，剁馅，包饺子，花了一个上午的时间。
包了三十来个，
放了十几个韭菜馅的在冰箱里冻着，
自己煮了二十来个，
中午吃十个，
晚上吃十个。
吃完不愿动了，
把剩下的馅放到冰箱里，
明天再包吧。
虽然和LP说好今天不回去，
但电话也不打一个也说不过去吧。
上了床，
刚拿起电话，
LP打过来了。
结果是有事找我，
说给宝宝买保险的事。
唉，一句浪漫的话都没来得及说。
算了，
睡吧，
也不写了，
休息好了上班也好过点。
Today is June 28th, which is the third anniversary of my marriage with my wife.
I originally wanted to change shifts,
so that I could have time in the evening to celebrate with my wife.
But when I told my wife about it,
my wife said there was no need,
tomorrow is Friday,
she will come to my place tomorrow evening to spend the weekend.
It's not a big deal missing this one day.
The book taught me to respect my wife's opinion,
not to impose my own good plans on my wife,
so I'll just wait to pick her up tomorrow to spend the weekend.
In the morning, I went to the market to buy vegetables.
My wife likes to eat towel gourds,
so I bought two.
I also bought one bitter gourd and some meat.
My wife also likes to eat dumplings,
so I bought some meat, some leeks, and a Chinese cabbage.
I bought flour,
and went home to make dumplings by myself.
It took the whole morning to knead the dough, mince the filling, and make dumplings.
I made about thirty dumplings.
Put more than a dozen leek-filled ones in the refrigerator to freeze,
I cooked about twenty by myself,
ate ten for lunch and ten for dinner.
After eating, I didn't feel like moving,
so I put the remaining filling in the refrigerator,
and I'll make dumplings tomorrow.
Although I had agreed with my wife not to go back today,
it wouldn't be right not to make a phone call.
Got into bed,
just picked up the phone,
and my wife called.
It turned out she had something to ask me,
saying about buying insurance for the baby.
Alas, I didn't even get a chance to say a romantic word.
Never mind,
go to sleep,
I won't write anymore,
it's better to rest well and have an easier time at work.
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『第 11 楼』:
我离婚了
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今年3.25我老婆一纸状书把我告上法院，要求和我离婚。
我不同意离，可她家有本事让一审法官给判离了。
我不服，上诉到中级法院，中级法院最后还是基本维持原判，
只是把小孩的抚养费从1200降到了800每月。
老婆也没了，
小孩也没了，
钱也没了，
我又成了孤苦伶仃的一个单身汉了。
我对中国的法律和执法人员失望透了，
儿子我是不会给她的，
法院爱咋地咋地去。
没什么好说的了。
On March 25 this year, my wife filed a lawsuit against me in court, asking for a divorce.
I didn't agree to divorce, but her family had the ability to make the first-instance judge rule for divorce.
I was dissatisfied and appealed to the intermediate court. The intermediate court finally basically upheld the original judgment,
only reducing the child support from 1200 yuan per month to 800 yuan per month.
My wife is gone,
the child is gone,
the money is gone,
I have become a lonely bachelor again.
I am extremely disappointed with China's laws and law enforcement personnel,
I will not give her the son,
let the court do whatever it wants.
There's nothing more to say.
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儿子被抱走了
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今天法院的执行人员和我前妻到我这里把我儿子给抱走了。。。
儿子不愿跟她去，哭得不行，可法院的人强行把他给抱上了车。
我也哭得不行，老妈也哭得不行，
可是在中国，
一般的老百姓能怎么样呢？
其实说什么一切为了小孩的成长有利为原则，
还不是空话。
儿子就认我，
就要我，
可是还不是强行把儿子带到他不愿去的地方，
过他不愿意过的生活？
法院的人收了黑钱，
啥干不出来？
儿子今天晚上不知道会哭成啥样子，
每天晚上儿子都是跟着我睡的，
除非我上夜班去了，
儿子才会让奶奶跟他睡。
现在要他跟他不要的妈妈睡，
或者跟他外婆睡，
他不哭死才怪。
唉～～～
Today, the enforcement personnel from the court and my ex-wife came to my place and took my son away...
The son didn't want to go with her and was crying badly, but the court personnel forcefully carried him into the car.
I was also crying badly, and my mom was too...
But in China,
What can ordinary people do?
Actually, saying that everything is for the child's good growth principle,
Isn't it just empty talk?
The son only recognizes me,
Only wants me,
But still they forcefully take the son to a place he doesn't want to go,
Live a life he doesn't want to live?
The court personnel took bribes,
What won't they do?
I don't know how the son will cry tonight,
Every night the son sleeps with me,
Unless I go to night shift,
The son will let grandma sleep with him.
Now to make him sleep with the mother he doesn't want,
Or with his grandmother,
He will definitely cry to death.
Alas～～～
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昨晚就没咋睡觉。
玩电脑到凌晨三点，
老妈问了一句，
怎么老喜欢熬夜啊？
我答了一句，就睡。
熄了灯，
听到爹妈还在说话，
两个老人互相在劝慰着。
昨晚老妈哭得老泪纵横，
我和爸爸都劝她不要哭，
劝着劝着自己也哭起来。
一直睡不着，
儿子以前一直是要跟我睡的，
现在不在身边，
他不知道会哭成啥样。
迷迷糊糊睡着，
突然听到爸爸大喊一声，
老妈连忙问他是不是做恶梦了。
爸爸在梦里都吓哭了。
好一阵子才睡了。
我觉得我真的是不孝啊，
自己没找到个好老婆，
还害得我七十多岁的父母亲又是生气，
又是伤心，
又是害怕，
我没让他们享受什么幸福，
反而跟着我受尽了苦，
最后辛苦带了一年的孙子也没保住。
我也一直做着梦，
感觉很辛苦很辛苦，
一直没法逃脱那种辛苦的感觉。
早上9点半才起的床。
今天是周末，
我想去探视儿子，
昨天儿子被抱走的时候，
我跟他说过两天我就去看他的。
跟我前妻打电话，
一开始不接，
后来发个信息过去，
说有事找她，
再打过去才接的。
刚说要看宝宝，
她就说你这个人脑子怎么想事的，
我现在有事，没空跟你说，
就挂了。
等了一个多小时，
我又发信息过去。
说希望她配合我行使我的探视权，
而且儿子也想爸爸，
这么硬性分开我们，
儿子会受不了。
昨天分开得太匆忙，
我还欠儿子一个解释。
让我见儿子，我可以好好劝他在你那儿过日子的。
我前妻还是不答应，
说，
我都半年没见到他了才来一天你就这样你又如何说得出口？
我解释给她听，说你硬生生地不让儿子见我，
儿子当然也没辙，
但这样容易留下心理创伤，
我见到他好好劝他在你那过日子，
他会听我的话的，
那样你也好带他。
我请我前妻不要只顾自己的感受，
而不考虑儿子的感受。
她只回了句
宝宝在我这很好，
没有啥不适应的。
所以说我前妻就是这样一个自以为是的人呢，
一点不顾别人的感受。
宝宝昨天都不肯跟她去，
一直让我抱着，
不肯下来。
后来强行从我手中抱走了，
宝宝哭得气都喘不过来，
嘴唇都发紫了，
好不容易才哭出声来。
宝宝每天都要找我，
黏着我，
要我陪他玩，
陪他睡。
我在身边的时候，
奶奶给他洗脸啊，穿衣服穿鞋子都不要，
一定要我给他洗，给他穿。
儿子这么黏我，
这一去外婆家，
怎么适应得了？
唉。。。
如果这样，
宝宝心灵怎么不会留下创伤？
当然，
如果说这也是一种适应，
那也勉强能说，
但这种适应，
只不过是无法反抗而只能默默承受罢了，
这种适应过程就会给儿子带来心理阴影的。
反正跟我前妻是说不清楚了，
她这种人不会懂得这些道理的，
她也不会懂得去理解别人的感受的，
在她的世界里，
她是第一位的。
她就是那种只顾自己不顾别人的人。
所以才会半年了都不来看一看自己的儿子的。
儿子在我这时，
她自己不想见到我，
就连儿子都不见了。
她自己不想听见我的声音，
就连一个电话也不打给儿子。
还要反咬一口说我不让她见儿子。
昨天她发信息过来说，
希望好聚好散。
我现在才明白她的意思，
她就是说儿子在她这儿带，
也不希望我去联络她，
要让我在她的世界里完全消失。
儿子在她那里，
我肯定得联络她的，
我要定期能看到我的儿子。
要不然，
求我联络她我也不会理她的。
象儿子在我这里带的这大半年，
她不想来电话，不想见面，
那我们就各过各的，也不打电话，也不见面。
她忍得下心来不联络我，
不来看宝宝，
我也就当她消失了。
我跟她是玩完了。
但儿子在她那里，
我就非得联络她不可，
她可以不看宝宝，
我不行。
当然，
在她的眼里，
儿子接过去才一天，
又让儿子回我这，
这不可能。
从她的角度来考虑这个问题，
答案是这样的。
但如果为了宝宝的心理健康着想，
让我接回来劝劝他也是个好事啊。
但如果我前妻是个会这样想问题的人，
我们之间哪里会走到这一步？
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I didn't sleep much last night.
Played on the computer until three in the morning,
Mom asked a question,
Why do you always like to stay up late?
I answered, I'll go to sleep.
Turned off the light,
Heard parents still talking,
The two old people were comforting each other.
Mom cried bitterly last night,
My dad and I both persuaded her not to cry,
And ended up crying ourselves while persuading.
Couldn't fall asleep all the time,
My son used to sleep with me,
Now he's not around,
I don't know how he would cry.
Dozed off,
Suddenly heard dad shout,
Mom quickly asked him if he had a nightmare.
Dad cried in his dream.
Only fell asleep after a while.
I feel really unfilial,
I didn't find a good wife,
And made my parents in their seventies angry, sad, and scared,
I didn't let them enjoy any happiness,
But instead made them suffer with me,
And finally didn't keep the grandson who was taken care of for a year.
I also kept having dreams,
Felt very hard,
Couldn't escape that hard feeling.
Got up at 9:30 in the morning.
Today is the weekend,
I want to visit my son,
When my son was taken away yesterday,
I told him I would see him in a few days.
Called my ex-wife,
Didn't answer at first,
Then sent a message saying there was something to talk to her about,
Answered the call when I called again.
Just said I wanted to see the baby,
She said, what's wrong with your mind,
I'm busy now, no time to talk to you,
And hung up.
Waited for more than an hour,
Sent another message.
Said I hoped she would cooperate with me to exercise my visitation rights,
And the son misses his dad too,
Separating us so forcefully,
The son would not stand it.
Separated too hastily yesterday,
I still owed the son an explanation.
Let me see the son, I can persuade him to live with you well.
My ex-wife still didn't agree,
Said, I haven't seen him for half a year and you come for one day, how can you say that?
I explained to her that you forcibly didn't let the son see me,
The son naturally had no way,
But this is easy to leave psychological trauma,
I see him and persuade him to live with you well,
He will listen to me,
Then it's easier for you to take care of him.
I asked my ex-wife not to only care about her own feelings,
But not consider the son's feelings.
She only replied that the baby is very well with her,
No discomfort.
So my ex-wife is such a self-righteous person,
Not caring about others' feelings at all.
The baby didn't want to go with her yesterday,
Kept being held by me,
Refused to get down.
Then was forcibly taken away from my hands,
The baby cried so hard that he couldn't catch his breath,
Lips turned purple,
Finally managed to cry.
The baby asks for me every day,
Sticks to me,
Wants me to play with him,
Sleep with him.
When I was around,
Grandma washed his face, dressed him, put on shoes, he didn't want to,
Must have me do it for him.
The son is so attached to me,
How can he adapt to going to his grandmother's house?
Alas...
If this is the case,
How can the baby's mind not have trauma?
Of course,
If this is also a kind of adaptation,
It can barely be said,
But this kind of adaptation,
Is just being unable to resist and can only bear it silently,
This adaptation process will bring psychological shadow to the son.
Anyway, can't reason with my ex-wife,
She doesn't understand these principles,
She doesn't know how to understand others' feelings,
In her world,
She is the first.
She is the kind of person who only cares about herself and not others.
That's why she didn't come to see her son for half a year.
When the son was with me,
She didn't want to see me,
Even the son disappeared.
She didn't want to hear my voice,
Didn't even call the son.
And also bit back saying I didn't let her see the son.
She sent a message yesterday saying,
Hope to part amicably.
I just understood her meaning now,
She means that the son is with her,
And doesn't want me to contact her,
Wants me to completely disappear from her world.
The son is with her,
I must contact her,
I want to see my son regularly.
Otherwise,
Even if she asks me to contact her, I won't pay attention to her.
Like the son was with me for more than half a year,
She didn't want to call, didn't want to meet,
Then let's live our own lives, don't call, don't meet.
She has the heart to not contact me,
Not come to see the baby,
I'll just treat her as gone.
I'm done with her.
But the son is with her,
I have to contact her,
She can not see the baby,
I can't.
Of course,
In her eyes,
The son was picked up for only one day,
And let the son come back to me,
Impossible.
Considering this problem from her perspective,
The answer is like this.
But if for the baby's mental health,
Letting me pick him up and persuade him is also a good thing.
But if my ex-wife is the kind of person who can think this way,
How did we come to this step?
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算起来有十年没有读书了。。。
参加工作之后，
基本没有正经地读过书。
刚开始的时候，
还有点想考研，
买了几本辅导讲义来看，
也是有一搭子没一搭子地看，
也去考了一次，
后来连看分的勇气都没有。
之后就几乎没看过书。
在网络上也看过一些精彩的帖子，
也看些电子书籍。
曾经下载过近G的电子书，
也没静下心来看过。
而且看电子书好像不是在看书一样，
没有读书的味道。
儿子不在身边带着，
突然觉得空虚了很多。
于是想起来读书。
书架上多数是专业书，
还有一些是以前想考研时留下的书，
只有少数的可以看的书。
去二楼搬了尘封已久的书桌上来，
摆在书房的窗前，
这里光线很好，
很适合阅读。
真正静下来读书的时候还是在晚上。
家里两个电视机都坏了，
甚至投影机的那个有线电视的接口也在上次搬动时给撞坏了，
没有一个可以看电视的东东了，
晚上还真是没有节目，
就想到坐到书桌前，
随便抽了一本高中语文教材来看。
这本不是正规的教材，
不知道这样说妥不妥当，
这是语文读本，
与教科书配套使用，由教师指导学生在课外阅读的东东。
从第一页开始翻起，
开头是汪国真的短文五则，
然后是徐訏的《谈金钱》，王则柯的《钱》，
张中行的《螳螂》，
余秋雨的《老屋窗口》，
许墨林的《大佛的沉思》。
先就看了这么几篇。
汪国真的散文，或者说是诗，
这种诗人写的散文也透着诗意，
在我想来，
总有些小资的情调在里面。
写得是很好，
文字功夫也是好的，
立意，思想也是积极的，上进的，
但我总觉得像空中楼阁，
像是年少不经事的少年。
这几篇就匆匆翻过去了事。
接下来两篇都是谈钱的，
离婚当然也离不开财产分割，
（有时候我觉得五笔输入法有点神奇，
比如分割这个词，和侵害这个词输入是一样的，
我想打分割这个词，一不小心就打成了侵害，
可这样的财产分割，可不是对我的财产的一种侵害？
还有一些词，一下子记不起来了，
相同的输入出现的两个词，
一个正好像是另一个的解释，
而且这种解释，
却很有一些讽刺的味道，
好像一语中的地剥开了一个词的虚伪的表皮，
直接把这个词的真实意思给表露出来了）
说穿了也就是钱。
法律是神圣的，但一遇到金钱，法律就化为乌有；
爱情是神圣的，但一遇到金钱，爱情就化为乌有；
天下有近真的真理，有近善的道德，有近美的时髦，
但现在都隶属于金钱之下，因金钱之有而有，因金钱之无而无了。
这一段好像就像是特意写给我看的，
哈，
这一年来遭遇到的一切，
包括夫妻吵架，
法院瞎断案，
儿子被抢走，
财产被侵害，
哪一件事没有金钱在作怪？？
前妻家里有钱有势，
我落得这个下场也是必然的。
亏我前妻还有脸说她家是得道多助，
什么时候都带着一帮子亲戚来跟我示威，
如果不是她家有那么一点权势，
那些乱七八糟的亲戚又怎么可能招之即来，
甘心去舔她家的脚丫子？
那个法官怎么又可能这样循私枉法，瞎判乱断？
可笑有钱人越是有钱，
越是想谋别人的钱，
无不用其极。
到餐馆吃饭看见人家的碗很可爱就顺手捎走，
拿了人家的大碗装菜回去就不还了，
还诤诤有词说谁让他那个菜标价那么贵呢。
像我们这种从小受“志士不饮盗泉之水”教育的人如何能接受？
或许是我当时太盲目了？爱情是盲目的？
还是当时太急躁了？老房子着火？（我算是晚婚，比较晚的那种）
总之，
有了这次教训，
以后看人一定要看清楚才行。
以前只知“螳臂当车”（当 通 挡 ？），”螳螂捕蝉，黄雀在后“
这几句成语，并不知其出处，亦不知其原文。
在《螳螂》这篇文章中都有了答案。
前者出于《庄子·人间世》：
汝不知夫螳螂乎？怒其臂以当车辙，不知其不胜任也。
另有《韩诗外传》卷八说：
齐庄公出猎，有螳螂举足将抟其轮，问其御曰：”此何虫也？“
御曰：”此是螳螂也，其为虫知进而不知退，不量力而轻就敌。“
庄公曰：”以为人，必为天下勇士矣。“
于是回车避之。
（勇士 输入 同 能干， 能干的人才能称勇士吧？哈，五笔输入之神奇可见一斑）
后者出于《说苑》卷九《正谏》：
园中有树，其上有蝉。蝉高居悲鸣饮露，不知螳螂在其后也。螳螂委身曲附欲取蝉，
而不知黄雀在其傍也。黄雀延颈欲啄螳螂，而不知弹丸在其下也。此三者皆务欲得其前利而不顾其后之有患也。
文末写道欲求一张螳螂的书画，作者将此意告之夫人，
室中人云：”你一向是想得好做得少的，这一次能够破例才好。“
（所谓室中人，就是妻子的意思，跟湖南话说堂客，乡下人说屋里人一样，文人就是文人，就爱酸一下）
我想，
我也是一样的，
希望自己也能破例一下才好。
读书也好，
码字也好，
希望能够坚持下去，
不要只想不做。
希望自己能过上充实的新的生活，
有着自己的爱好，追求，
不再像以前那样浑浑噩噩地瞎忙活。
《老屋窗口》以前就看过的，
说的是名叫河英的女子，
年少的时候向往新生活，
也读过书，受过教育，
后来还是像普通的山里女人一样过日子去了。
绕了一个圈，又绕回去了，
也许这就是生活吧。
最后一篇是讲 海通 和尚 开凿 乐山大佛 的故事，
以前只知道乐山大佛是个名胜风景，
并不知道这里面的艰难曲折，
更不知道是为了治水，
为了根除三江水患（青戈，岷江，大渡河）而造的，
劈开山壁建造圣像，借佛祖威灵，以镇风涛。
书只读了半小时左右，
笔记写了却有一个半小时了。。。
到底是读书？
还是笔记？？
就到这了。
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It has been about ten years since I last read a book...
After starting work,
I basically haven't read a serious book.
In the beginning,
I still had the idea of taking the postgraduate entrance exam,
I bought a few tutorial handouts to read,
but I read them in a desultory way,
and I also took the exam once,
later I didn't even have the courage to check the score.
After that, I almost didn't read any books.
I also read some wonderful posts on the Internet,
and also read some e-books.
I once downloaded nearly 1GB of e-books,
but I didn't read them with concentration.
And reading e-books doesn't seem like reading a book,
there's no taste of reading a book.
My son isn't with me,
suddenly I feel a lot more empty.
So I thought of reading books.
Most of the books on the bookshelf are professional books,
and some are the books left over from when I wanted to take the postgraduate entrance exam before,
there are only a few books that can be read.
I went to the second floor to move the desk that had been dusted for a long time up,
and placed it by the window of the study,
the light here is very good,
very suitable for reading.
The real time to settle down and read books is at night.
Both TV sets at home are broken,
and even the cable TV interface of the projector was damaged in the last move,
there isn't a single thing to watch TV,
there really aren't any programs at night,
so I thought of sitting at the desk,
and randomly picked up a high school Chinese textbook to read.
This isn't a regular textbook,
I don't know if it's appropriate to say this,
this is a Chinese reader,
used in conjunction with the textbook, and it's something for students to read outside of class under the guidance of teachers.
I turned from the first page,
the beginning is five essays by Wang Guozhen,
then "On Money" by Xu Xu, "Money" by Wang Zeke,
"Praying Mantis" by Zhang Zhongxing,
"Window of the Old House" by Yu Qiuyu,
"Meditation of the Giant Buddha" by Xu Molin.
I just read these few articles first.
Wang Guozhen's prose, or rather poetry,
this kind of prose written by a poet also exudes poetic flavor,
in my mind,
there's always some petty bourgeois sentiment in it.
It's written very well,
the writing skills are also good,
the conception and thought are also positive and progressive,
but I always feel like it's a castle in the air,
like a young and inexperienced teenager.
These few articles were just flipped through in a hurry.
The next two articles are both about money,
divorce of course can't be separated from property division,
(sometimes I think the Wubi input method is a bit magical,
for example, the word "division" and the word "infringement" are input the same,
I wanted to type the word "division", but accidentally typed "infringement",
but this kind of property division, isn't it a kind of infringement on my property?
There are some other words, I can't remember them for a while,
two words with the same input,
one seems to be the explanation of the other,
and this kind of explanation,
but there's a lot of ironic flavor,
it's like directly exposing the true meaning of a word by piercing the hypocritical skin of a word,
directly revealing the true meaning of this word)
to put it bluntly, it's just money.
Law is sacred, but when it meets money, the law vanishes;
Love is sacred, but when it meets money, love vanishes;
There are almost true truths in the world, almost good morals, almost beautiful fashions,
but now they are all subordinate to money, existing because money exists, and not existing because money doesn't exist.
This paragraph seems to be written specifically for me to read,
ha,
everything I've encountered in the past year,
including quarrels between husband and wife,
the court making a random judgment,
the son being taken away,
property being infringed,
which thing doesn't have money at work?
My ex-wife's family is rich and powerful,
it's inevitable that I ended up like this.
It's ridiculous that my ex-wife still has the face to say that her family is supported by virtue,
when did she ever bring a group of relatives to show off to me,
if it weren't for her family having a little power,
how could those messy relatives come at call,
willing to lick her family's feet?
How could that judge be so partial and perverse, making random judgments?
It's funny that the richer the rich are,
the more they want to plot against others' money,
stooping to all sorts of means.
I saw that the bowl in the restaurant was cute and just took it away,
took the big bowl of the other person to hold vegetables and didn't return it,
and even had the gall to say that who let his vegetables be priced so expensive.
How could people like us who were educated with "A man of integrity does not drink from the盗泉" accept this?
Maybe I was too blind at that time? Love is blind?
Or was I too impatient at that time? Old house on fire? (I got married relatively late)
In short,
I have had this lesson,
I must see people clearly in the future.
In the past, I only knew "A praying mantis trying to stop a chariot" (when 当 is homophonic with 挡?), "The praying mantis catches the cicada, while the oriole is behind",
I didn't know the origin or the original text of these idioms.
In the article "Praying Mantis", all the answers are there.
The former comes from "Zhuangzi·Ren Jian Shi":
Don't you know the praying mantis? It gets angry and raises its arms to block the rut, not knowing that it is incompetent.
There is also "Han Shi Wai Zhuan" volume eight saying:
King Zhuang of Qi went hunting, and there was a praying mantis raising its foot to fight its wheel, and asked his driver: "What kind of insect is this?"
The driver said: "This is a praying mantis, it is an insect that knows how to advance but not how to retreat, does not measure its strength and lightly confronts the enemy."
King Zhuang said: "If it were a person, it must be a warrior in the world."
So he turned the car to avoid it.
(Warrior input is the same as capable, only capable people can be called warriors, ha, the magic of Wubi input can be seen from this)
The latter comes from "Shuo Yuan" volume nine "Zheng Jian":
There is a tree in the garden, and there is a cicada on it. The cicada is high up, crying and drinking dew, not knowing that the praying mantis is behind it. The praying mantis bends its body and wants to catch the cicada,
and doesn't know that the oriole is beside it. The oriole stretches its neck to peck the praying mantis, and doesn't know that the bullet is below it. These three all strive to get the profit in front of them and don't care about the troubles behind them.
At the end of the article, it is written that I want to get a painting and calligraphy of a praying mantis, and the author told his wife this meaning,
the person in the room said: "You have always been the kind who thinks well but does little, it would be good to make an exception this time."
(The so-called person in the room is the wife's meaning, just like in Hunan dialect it's called tang ke, and in the countryside it's called wu li ren, scholars are scholars, they just love to be pretentious)
I think,
I am the same,
I hope I can make an exception too.
Whether it's reading books or coding,
I hope I can persevere,
not just think but not do.
I hope I can live a fulfilling new life,
have my own hobbies and pursuits,
and no longer be muddling along like before.
"Window of the Old House" I have read before,
it's about a woman named He Ying,
when she was young, she yearned for a new life,
she also read books and received education,
but later she still lived the life of an ordinary mountain woman,
went around in a circle, and went back again,
maybe this is life.
The last article is about the story of Monk Haitong carving the Leshan Giant Buddha,
in the past I only knew that the Leshan Giant Buddha is a scenic spot,
I didn't know the difficulties and twists and turns in it,
let alone that it was built to control water,
to eradicate the three river floods (Qingyi River, Minjiang River, Dadu River) and build the sacred statue by splitting the mountain wall, borrowing the Buddha's power to suppress the wind and waves.
I only read the book for about half an hour,
but I spent one and a half hours writing notes...
Is it reading books?
Or taking notes??
That's it for now.
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说到读书的事情，我也有些感想，网上有篇文章，我有同感，如果你认为不合适的话可以删除。
我老人家毕业的时候，一个博士老师曾经给我讲过，请同学们毕业后每年读一本书，很多人一毕业，很多年都不读一本书。我当时心里好笑，对于我这样爱读书的人来说，一本书算啥，就算是几十本书也不在话下阿，但是，现在回头一看，这个忠告却不幸的言中了，数年来，我的确一本书也没有读过了。
不是我不想读书，而是在营营役役、奔波劳累的生涯里，根本腾不出时间来读书，每天勤苦劳累的回到家，我只想静静的躺在沙发上，为明天的辛苦工作积聚最后一点的能量，毕竟，这个世界除了我自己的努力外，没有人能帮助我。
你的情况又是怎样呢,我不得而知，但是这个世界这么大，肯定也有和我相似的人的吧，尽管这是从概率上说的。
现在不看书，实际上还有一个原因，的确没有事么好书让我看得，我需要一本能激发我生存勇气的书，我需要一本能从心里打动我的书，可惜，直到又一个春天即将来临的时候，我依然找不到这样的一本书，我怀疑这个世界上是否真的会有一本能鼓励人在中国这样的社会里生存的书。
找不到我就不看书，甚至不看报纸，本来我是一直都看《南方周末》和《读书》的，但是，自从南方周末换人后，看着那些歌舞升平、国泰民安的阿谀奉承之语，觉的恶心，于是发下毒誓，不再看一眼南方周末。读书杂志只是因为现在的一些文章不再适合我的口味所以也不看了。
我想我对中国知识界，对于媒体、对于作家是很有成见的，这原自他们对我所生活的世界的歪曲的表现，看见他们的作品，我会产生一种不知身处何处的幻觉，到底是我错了，还是他们都错了。很长一段时间以来，我都没有看电视了，尤其是国内的电视台（包括二狗子凤凰台），我绝对不碰这些高级人写的东西，尽管这数十年来我就是受他们的教育成长的。
我把自己封闭起来，这样世界反而在我的眼里清晰起来了，我看到妓女的泪，残疾人的痛，下岗工人的怨，农民兄弟（我本身也是农民的后代，但我决不敢像某人说我是中国某某的儿子）的苦，我自身在风雨飘摇中的彷徨与悲哀。
专家们说，青年们要多读读书，老师我倒是建议你们少读一点书，除了一些确实可以提高自己的专业能力的书籍和学好外语工具外，国内的报纸和媒体还是不要看了，没意思的。除了让你像那些“爱国者”们一样在想象中意淫外，得不到任何好处的。什么国家强人民强的，你先管好自己的三餐温饱再说吧。
我承认我的同学们在抗议美国轰炸大使馆的时候，我在宿舍呼呼大睡，我睡得很好。因为我实在想不到我应该为这个国家争取什么，因为，从我出生到现在，估计将来也不会，这个国家从来没有照顾我什么，我从农村来到城市，为搞户口花费了我的父母二十年的积蓄，我的童年只有在建筑工地的泥沙中度过，寂寞而忧郁，现在每一顿饭我都吃得很多，因为我总是有一种饥饿感，这些是现在的青年体会不到的。我贫贱的父母用自己的血汗养育了我，我没有感受到祖国任何关怀，连我的读书都要交赞助费。我在城市人的歧视中成长，虽然后来我也成为了城市人。
读书实际上是寻找真理，或许说是为了逼近真理。但是，现在中国的教育包括媒体天然的叫你不要思考，人民一思考，上帝就紧张。所以要加强学习。不读书，可能让你生活在自我的世界里，但是读书，你就成为了别人的道具。
当然，这样的提议的确是有点愤世嫉俗的，估计很多先生们会大肆鞭打我的这种论调的，但是我不为国家而活着，当然更不会鸟这些人了，我想最近很红的张委员假如看到的建议恐怕又要怕案而起，这还了得，《加强成年人的道德思想教育的建议》恐怕已经要提交政协了。
以前我还撰稿批评一下媒体，呼吁媒体要有良心，不要睁眼说瞎话之类的，现在我知道完全没有用处了，这个国家已经烂到骨子里了，已经异化成为不可琢磨的权力，看着那些倒行逆施的政策，老师我这些草民已经无话可说，法无定法，国将不国。
这样的社会还读什么书？还有什么书可读，连女丑女丑的书都可以得省五个一精神文明奖，我们还能相信那些像寄生虫一样的专业作家吗？既然所有的书都是不痛不痒的颂词，不读也罢。
摘自中国社会生存的必备常识之十六
When it comes to the matter of reading, I also have some feelings. There is an article online, and I can identify with it. If you think it's inappropriate, you can delete it.
When I graduated, a doctoral teacher once told me, please read one book every year after graduation. Many people, once they graduate, don't read a book for many years. I thought it was funny at that time. For someone like me who loves reading, what's a book? Even dozens of books are nothing to me. But looking back now, this advice unfortunately came true. Over the years, I really haven't read a single book.
It's not that I don't want to read, but in the busy and tiring life, there's simply no time to read. Every day, I come home tired and just want to lie quietly on the sofa to accumulate the last bit of energy for the hard work tomorrow. After all, in this world, except for my own efforts, no one can help me.
What about your situation? I don't know, but there must be people similar to me in this big world, although this is from a probabilistic perspective.
The reason why I don't read books now is actually that there are really no good books for me to read. I need a book that can inspire my will to survive, a book that can touch me from the heart. Unfortunately, until another spring is about to come, I still can't find such a book. I doubt if there really is a book that can encourage people to survive in such a society in China.
If I can't find it, I won't read books, and even won't read newspapers. Originally, I always read "Southern Weekend" and "Reading". But since Southern Weekend changed its people, looking at those sycophantic words of prosperity and peace, I feel disgusted. So I swore an oath not to read Southern Weekend again. I don't read "Reading" magazine either because some of the articles now don't suit my taste.
I think I have a lot of prejudices against the Chinese intellectual circle, the media, and the writers. This is because of their distorted portrayal of the world I live in. When I see their works, I will have an illusion of not knowing where I am. Is it me who is wrong, or are they all wrong? For a long time, I haven't watched TV, especially domestic TV stations (including the second-dog Phoenix TV). I absolutely don't touch these things written by high-level people, although I have been educated by them for these decades.
I isolate myself, and then the world becomes clearer in my eyes. I see the tears of prostitutes, the pain of the disabled, the grievances of laid-off workers, the hardships of peasant brothers (I am also a descendant of peasants, but I dare not say I am the son of some Chinese), my own hesitation and sorrow in the storm.
Experts say that young people should read more books. But I suggest that you teachers read less books. Except for some books that can really improve your professional ability and learn foreign languages well, don't read domestic newspapers and media. It's boring. Except for making you masturbate in imagination like those "patriots", you get no benefits. What country strong people strong, you first take care of your own three meals and food and clothing.
I admit that when my classmates were protesting against the US bombing of the embassy, I was sleeping soundly in the dormitory. I slept well. Because I really can't think of what I should fight for for this country. Because from my birth to now, and probably in the future, this country has never taken care of me. I came to the city from the countryside, and it cost my parents 20 years' savings to get my household registration. My childhood was spent in the sand and mud of the construction site, lonely and melancholy. Now I eat a lot every meal because I always have a sense of hunger. These are what the current young people can't experience. My poor parents raised me with their hard work, but I didn't feel any care from the motherland. Even my study required paying sponsorship fees. I grew up under the discrimination of urban people, although later I also became an urban person.
Reading is actually to seek truth, or perhaps to approach truth. But now Chinese education, including the media, naturally tells you not to think. When the people think, God gets nervous. So we need to strengthen learning. Not reading books may let you live in your own world, but reading books, you become a prop for others.
Of course, such a proposal is indeed a bit cynical. I estimate that many gentlemen will whip my such argument vigorously. But I don't live for the country, and of course, I won't pay attention to these people. I think if the recent very popular Commissioner Zhang saw the suggestion, he would probably stand up in anger. This won't do. The "Proposal to Strengthen the Moral and Ideological Education of Adults"恐怕 has to be submitted to the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference.
I used to also write articles to criticize the media, calling on the media to have conscience and not to talk nonsense. Now I know it's completely useless. This country has rotted to the bone, and has been alienated into an unpredictable power. Looking at those perverse policies, I, a commoner, have nothing to say. If there is no fixed law, the country will not be a country.
What book to read in such a society? What books are there to read? Even books with ugly women can get the Provincial Five Ones Spiritual Civilization Award. Can we still believe those professional writers like parasites? Since all books are insipid eulogies, it's better not to read them.
Extracted from "Essential Common Sense for Living in Chinese Society" Part Sixteen
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