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[分享]学会沉默.保持单纯
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学会沉默.保持单纯。
有时候，你被人误解，你不想争辩，所以选择沈默。本来就不是所有的人都得了解你，因此你认为不必对全世界喊话。却也有时候，你被最爱的人误解，你难过到不想争辩，也只有选择沈默。全世界都可以不懂你，但他应该懂，若他竟然不能懂，还有什么话可说？生命中往往有连舒伯特都无言以对的时刻，毕竟不是所有的是非都能条列清楚，甚至可能根本没有真正的是与非。那么，不想说话，就不说吧，在多说无益的时候，也许沈默就是最好的解释。
至少平静……
在你跌入人生谷底的时候，你身旁所有的人都告诉你：要坚强，而且要快乐。坚强是绝对需要的，但是快乐?在这种情形下，恐怕是太为难你了。毕竟，谁能在跌得头破血流的时候还觉得高兴？但是至少可以做到平静。平静地看待这件事，平静地把其他该处理的事处理好。平静，没有快乐，也没有不快乐。
学会弯腰……
这会是我意外的收获和别人发生意见上的纷歧，甚造成言语上的冲突，所以你闷闷不乐，因为你觉得都是别人恶意。别再耿耿于怀了，回家去擦地板吧。拎一块抹布，弯下腰，双膝着地，把你面前这张地板的每个角落来回擦拭干净。然后重新省思自己在那场冲突，所说过的每一句话。现在，你发现自己其实也有不对的地方了，是不是?你渐渐心平气和了，是不是?有时候你必须学习弯腰，因为这个动作可以让你谦卑。劳动身体的同时，你也擦亮了自己的心绪。而且，你还拥有了一张光洁的地板呢。这是你的第二个收获。
不要想如果……
当初你说，人生是一条有无限多岔口的长路，永远在不停地做选择。如果只是选择吃炒面或炒饭，影响似乎不大，但选择读什么科系、做什么工作、结婚或不结婚、要不要有孩子，每一个选择都影响深远，而不同的选择也必定造就完全不一样的人生。你又说，生命中不可承受之情，就在于人生没有重来的机会啊。如果当初如何如何，现在就不会怎样怎样……这种充满怅然的喃喃自语，还是别再多说了吧。每一个岔口的选择其实没有真正的好与坏，只要把人生看成是自己。独一无二的创作，就不会频频回首如果当初做了不一样的选择。
努力吧……
不管成功与否至少曾经美丽漫步林间，你看见一株藤蔓附着树干，柔软与坚实相互交缠，你感动于这静美的一幕。让幸福与归属就此驻足吧。你想。不知未来会有怎样一番风雨摧折？也许藤将断、树会倒，也许天会荒，地将老。你又想。那么，请时光停格在此刻吧。停格即是永恒。永恒里若有这静美的一刻，未来可能遭遇的种种劫难，便已得到了安慰与报偿。
保持单纯……
因为思虑过多，所以你常常把你的人生复杂化了。明明是活在现在，你却总是念念不忘着过去，又忧心忡忡着未来；坚持携带着过去、未来与现在同行，你的人生当然只有一片拖泥带水。而单纯是一种恩宠状态。单纯地以皮肤感受天气的变化，单纯地以鼻腔品尝雨后的青草香，单纯地以眼睛统摄远山近景如一幅画。单纯地活在当下。而当下其实无所谓是非真假。既然没有是非，就不必思虑；没有真假，就无须念念不忘又忧心忡忡。无是非真假，不就像在做梦一样了吗?是呀，就单纯地把你的人生当成梦境去执行吧。
偶尔“俗气”……
吃多了健康食品，偶尔你也想啃一啃鸭舌头和盐酥鸡。看多了大师名剧，偶尔你也想瞄一瞄耳光摔不完眼泪掉不完的连续剧。听多了古典音乐，偶尔你也想唱一唱爱他一百年又恨他一他一万年的流行歌曲。你知道健康食品对健胃整肠有意义，大师名剧对培养气质有意义，古典音乐对提升性灵有意义，可是，偶尔你其实并不想让自己时时刻刻活得那么有意。人生不需要把自己绑得那么紧。偶尔的小小放纵，是道德的。灵气充满或许接近大人，但偶尔的俗气会更平易近人。
控制情绪，别浪费了……
今天的你，是不开心的你，因为有人在言语间刺伤了你。你不喜欢吵架，所以你离开；可是你只是离开了那，却没有离开被那人伤害的情境，因此你愈想愈生气。愈有气，你就愈没有力气去理会别的事情，许多更该用心去做去想去处理的事件，就在你漫天漫地的心烦意乱之中，被轻忽被漠视被省略了。因为，你只是一心一意地在生气。在情绪上做文章，这是对自己的浪费，而且是很坏的浪费。毕竟，生气也是要花力气的，而且生气一定伤元气。所以，聪明如你，别让情绪控制了你，当你又要生气之前，不妨轻声地提醒自己一句：“别浪费了。”
抓住最好的时机绝不错过……
你曾经买了一件很喜欢的衣裳却舍不得穿，郑重地供奉在衣柜里；许久之后，当你再看见它的时候，却发现它已经过时了。所以，你就这样与它错过了。你也曾经买了一块漂亮的蛋糕却舍不得吃，郑重地供奉在冰箱里；许久之后，当你再看见它的时候，却发现它已经过期了。所以，你也这样与它错过了。没有在最喜欢的时候上身的衣裳，没有在最可口的时候品尝的蛋糕，就像没有在最想做的时候去做的事情，都是遗憾。生命也有保存期限，想做的事该趁早去做。如果你只是把你的心愿郑重地供奉在心里，却未曾去实行，那么唯一的结果，就是与它错过，一如那件过时的衣裳，一如那块过期的蛋糕。
偶尔的出离轨道……
某次你搭火车打算到A地去，中途却忽然临时起意在B地下了车。也许是别致的地名吸引了你，也许是偶然一瞥的风景触动了你，总之，你就这样改变了本来预定的行程，然后经历了一场充满惊奇的意外旅行。A地是你原先的目标，B地却让你体会了小小的冒险。回忆起来，你说，那是一次令你难忘的出轨经验。生命中的许多时候不也如此？心无旁骛地奔赴唯一的目的，不过是履行了原本的行程而已；离开预设的轨道，你才有机会发现其他的风景。
悄悄悄悄地回归平静……
曾经有一段时间，你心情低落，甚至懒得拉开窗帘，看着窗外的阳光。因此你当然也忘了去看看，窗台上那一盆每天都需要喝水的玛格丽特。如此不知过了多久，总算有一天，你度过了心情的低潮，同时也想起了你的玛格丽特。天啊，可怜的花，她还活着吗？你战战兢兢地拉开窗帘，却见她迎风招摇，花颜可掬。原来在过去的这段日子里，你虽然忘了喂她喝水，老天却没忘了以雨露眷顾她呢。许多事物悄悄地在你的视线之外进行，而且悄悄地安排好了它们自己。天生万物，天养万物，一切其实无须担心……你只要做的就是做好自己，不留任何遗憾……足矣。
Learn to be silent. Keep it simple.
Sometimes, you are misunderstood, and you don't want to argue, so you choose silence. Not everyone has to understand you, so you think there's no need to shout to the whole world. But there are times when you are misunderstood by the one you love the most, and you are too sad to argue, so you can only choose silence. The whole world can not understand you, but he should understand. If he really can't understand, what else is there to say? There are often moments in life where even Schubert is speechless. After all, not all right and wrong can be clearly listed, and there may not be really right and wrong. Then, if you don't want to talk, just don't. When it's useless to say more, maybe silence is the best explanation.
At least be calm...
When you are at the bottom of your life, all the people around you tell you: be strong and be happy. Being strong is absolutely necessary, but happy? In this case, it's probably too hard for you. After all, who can be happy when they are beaten black and blue? But at least you can be calm. Calmly look at this matter, calmly handle other things that need to be dealt with. Calm, neither happy nor unhappy.
Learn to bend over...
This will be an unexpected gain. You have a disagreement with others and even a verbal conflict, so you are unhappy because you think it's all malicious. Don't worry about it anymore. Go home and mop the floor. Pick up a rag, bend over, kneel down, and wipe every corner of the floor in front of you back and forth. Then rethink every word you said in that conflict. Now, do you find that you actually have something wrong? Are you gradually calming down? Sometimes you have to learn to bend over because this action can make you humble. While working your body, you also clean up your mood. Moreover, you also have a clean floor. This is your second gain.
Don't think about if...
At the beginning, you said that life is a long road with infinite forks, always making choices. If it's just choosing fried noodles or fried rice, the impact is not great, but choosing what department to study, what job to do, whether to get married or not, whether to have children or not, each choice has a far-reaching impact, and different choices will certainly create completely different lives. You also said that the unendurable feeling in life is that there is no chance to start over in life. If it were like this at the beginning, it wouldn't be like this now... This kind of self-murmuring full of regret, don't say more. The choice at each fork actually has no real good or bad. As long as you regard life as your own unique creation, you won't frequently look back and think about making a different choice at the beginning.
Work hard...
No matter whether it succeeds or not, at least it was once beautiful. Walking in the woods, you see a vine attached to a tree trunk, with softness and firmness interwoven, and you are moved by this quiet and beautiful scene. Let happiness and belonging stop here. You think. I don't know what kind of wind and rain will break in the future? Maybe the vine will break, the tree will fall, maybe the sky will be desolate, and the earth will be old. You think again. Then, please stop time at this moment. Stopping time is eternity. If there is this quiet and beautiful moment in eternity, the various disasters that may be encountered in the future have been comforted and rewarded.
Keep it simple...
Because you think too much, you often complicate your life. Obviously, you are living in the present, but you always keep thinking about the past and worrying about the future; sticking to carrying the past, future and present together, your life is naturally messy. And simplicity is a state of grace. Simply feel the change of the weather with your skin, simply taste the fragrance of grass after rain with your nose, simply take in the distant and near scenery with your eyes like a picture. Simply live in the present. And the present actually has no right or wrong. Since there is no right or wrong, there is no need to think; since there is no true or false, there is no need to keep thinking and worrying. No right or wrong, isn't it like a dream? Yes, just simply treat your life as a dream to carry out.
Occasionally "vulgar"...
After eating too much healthy food, you also want to nibble on duck tongue and salt酥 chicken from time to time. After seeing too many master dramas, you also want to take a look at TV dramas with endless slaps and tears. After listening to too much classical music, you also want to sing popular songs that love him for a hundred years and hate him for ten thousand years. You know that healthy food is meaningful for a healthy stomach and intestines, master dramas are meaningful for cultivating temperament, and classical music is meaningful for enhancing spirituality, but sometimes you don't really want to live so meaningfully all the time. Life doesn't need to tie yourself so tight. Occasional small indulgence is moral. Being full of spirit may be close to an adult, but occasional vulgarity will be more approachable.
Control your emotions, don't waste them...
Today you are unhappy because someone hurt you with words. You don't like quarreling, so you leave; but you just left that place, but didn't leave the situation hurt by that person, so you get angrier and angrier. The angrier you are, the less energy you have to pay attention to other things. Many events that should be done, thought about and handled with more care are neglected, ignored and omitted in your random upset. Because you are only angry with all your heart. Making a fuss about emotions is a waste of yourself, and a very bad waste. After all, getting angry also takes effort, and getting angry must damage vitality. So, smart as you are, don't let emotions control you. Before you are about to get angry again, you might as well remind yourself softly: "Don't waste it."
Seize the best opportunity and never miss it...
You once bought a very favorite dress but didn't have the heart to wear it, and solemnly供奉 it in the wardrobe; after a long time, when you saw it again, you found that it was out of style. So you missed it like this. You once bought a beautiful cake but didn't have the heart to eat it, and solemnly供奉 it in the refrigerator; after a long time, when you saw it again, you found that it was expired. So you missed it like this. The dress that wasn't worn at the time you liked it the most, the cake that wasn't tasted at the most delicious time, just like the thing that wasn't done at the time you most wanted to do, are all regrets. Life also has a shelf life, and things you want to do should be done as soon as possible. If you just solemnly供奉 your wish in your heart but never implement it, the only result is to miss it, just like the out-of-style dress and the expired cake.
Occasional deviation from the track...
Once you took a train to go to place A, but suddenly got off at place B on a whim in the middle. Maybe it was the peculiar place name that attracted you, maybe it was the scenery you caught a glimpse of that touched you, in short, you changed the original scheduled journey like this, and then experienced an unexpected trip full of surprises. Place A was your original goal, but place B let you experience a small adventure. Looking back, you said it was an unforgettable derailment experience. Isn't this also the case in many times in life? Focusing on the only goal without distraction is just to fulfill the original journey; leaving the preset track, you have the opportunity to discover other scenery.
Quietly return to calm...
There was a period of time when you were in a low mood, and even懒得 open the curtain, looking at the sun outside the window. So you naturally forgot to go and see the marguerite on the windowsill that needs to be watered every day. After I don't know how long, finally one day, you got through the low mood, and also thought of your marguerite. Oh my god, poor flower, is she still alive? You opened the curtain timidly, but saw her swaying in the wind, with a lovely flower face. It turns out that in the past few days, although you forgot to feed her water, God didn't forget to take care of her with rain and dew. Many things are quietly going on outside your sight, and they are quietly arranged by themselves. All things are born and nurtured by heaven, and everything actually doesn't need to be worried about... All you need to do is be yourself well and leave no regrets... Enough.
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sfcctv
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『第 2 楼』:
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顶,楼主.我支持你.
Up, the original poster. I support you.
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反思自己，保持坚持，最后，还是自己对自己负责。
Reflect on oneself, maintain perseverance, and in the end, one is still responsible for oneself.
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