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Original Poster Posted 2009-10-04 12:28 ·  中国 山东 联通
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Loving someone to eight points is the most appropriate.
Loving someone too much, you will care too much about who they are with, whether they have you in their heart, your eyes will appear confused because you always follow them, you will be preoccupied, worried;
Loving someone too much, you will be nervous and eagerly await when you think of seeing them, and feel lost when they leave;
Loving someone too much, you will miss them just after saying goodbye;
Loving someone too much, you will be filled with sweetness because of their tenderness, and be depressed because of their indifference.
Loving someone too much, you will be led by them, like being hit by a magic wand, completely unable to be yourself. From then on, you have no own thoughts, no own joys, sorrows, and anger, you take them as the center, when with them, you are the whole world; when not with them, the world is them.
Loving someone too much, you will tolerate them without principles, slowly they get used to this indulgence, ignore your付出 for them, even feel you are very annoying, too lack personality, even start to despise, neglect, not respect you...
Loving someone too much, you are just like a candle, burning desperately, only to seek momentary light and heat. When the candle burns out, you have nothing. While the other party is just a flashlight, they can keep putting in new batteries, always maintain vitality.
Loving someone too much, they will get used to your good to them, and forget they should also give, forget you also need to get equal return――they are completely spoiled by you. Don't think you love the other party ten points they will love you ten points, love is unreasonable, so many times, love is also unequal.
Don't love someone to forget self completely. Such wholehearted love should only appear in novels, this society is less and less welcome to love regardless. Give them space to breathe, also leave a room for yourself――the love like moth to flame, while it is in progress is固然 make people feel magnificent, but if it becomes past tense, how do you clean up that mess? Invest so much, can you face that heavy loss?
So, love someone not to ten points, eight points is enough. The remaining two points, use to love yourself.
Love is poison, say, easy, do, hard.
If you can't do it, then at least don't love too much, all things in the world can't exceed their rated range, be moderate is okay, wind and rain by heaven, gathering and dispersing with fate, distance is also a kind of beauty, love self more, your life leave to self master, don't always can't forget people appeared in your life, actually they are all passers-by, only treat self well, you will be happy, beautiful!
Floor 2 Posted 2010-11-02 21:06 ·  中国 湖北 天门 电信
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Wind and rain come from the sky, gathering and dispersing with fate. Distance is also a kind of beauty. Love yourself more. Let your life be in your own hands. Don't always be unable to forget the people who have appeared in your life. In fact, they are all passers - by. Only by being kind to yourself can you be happy and beautiful! Classic. Collected.
Floor 3 Posted 2010-11-03 12:28 ·  中国 广东 深圳 电信
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What you wrote is very reasonable. It's not that you can't love deeply, but while loving, don't lose your own self. Only by being good to yourself can you be good to others and be happy.
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