China DOS Union

Good Friends

Does it only count as a good friend if they understand you without words?
I think it's exactly because friends hold this kind of idea that they lose contact...
You might think this way for just one day,
and it may turn into thinking this way for a whole year.

Saying nothing,
being too lazy to say anything,
so when you finally look back and want to chat with your good friend,
he is already a thousand miles away from you.
He may no longer be the person you knew.
He'll be like a stranger,
and so,
the good friends in your life
become one fewer just like that...

Who can truly be your good friend?
Usually, when your ways of thinking and personalities are pretty similar,
then it's possible to become good friends.
Good friends also need to grow together.
When opinions are exchanged with each other,
it's easiest to spark another way for us to look at this world.
It's also easier for us to gain things we ourselves never expected,
and it lets us understand the attitude with which to handle certain things.

But if you don't speak,
then I can only assume that you agree with me.
Then how are we supposed to draw passion for life from our friends?
How are we supposed to gain life's sense of wonder from this world?
We often think:
Ah! They're friends!
He must already know!
No need to say it!

Actually,
he knows absolutely nothing......
And misunderstandings begin right here...
How frightening are misunderstandings?
They drive a wedge into people's feelings.
They destroy social order.
They ruin the principle that "human nature is originally good."
Aren't many tragedies caused by misunderstandings?
Aside from lovers, people don't speak emotionally.........

What kind of logic is that?
Could it be that emotional words can only be spoken to a lover?
If you think that way,
then I can only advise you to look farther ahead.
If everything is limited to lovers,
then how are you supposed to broaden your life?

I always feel that people who put love above everything are very pitiful,
because they miss out on even more beautiful things.
Of course I'm not saying love is bad.
Love nourishes the soul,
gives comfort to the soul,
gives a person an invisible but powerful sense of support in both body and mind,
and most importantly, it makes people happy!!!

I know all this,
but love is only one part of our lives,
absolutely not the whole of it.
There really is no need to confine yourself to your own little world!!!

I think sharing is joyful.
Share the happy things in your life.
Share the sad things in your life.
Share everything, absolutely everything, in your life.
After that,
you will discover
that sharing is also a kind of gain.....

Brothers should be like hands and feet.

Many tragedies in this world do indeed come from misunderstandings. I feel this very deeply.