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The following is quoted from Master Rushi's post at 2004-1-21 22:20:18:
Hehe~ tdj praises me too much. I just chatted a bit with Fang Shao on MSn. On this kind of question, I'm generally rather emotional about it... not that much analysis... how should I put it? Just as I said to KO, winning a girl's favorable impression or even admiration is actually not that hard. The hard part is how you determine that she is the other half you've been waiting for all along, the one who can live with you in equal harmony and grow old together with white hair!
This, ah, is like Zen. It's like a fish drinking water—whether it's warm or cold, only it knows. It can be understood but not put into words. So........................... hehe~

Too much praise? Definitely not. I have never liked unprincipled flattery. Wasn't I just as blunt when talking about ko's shortcomings? I feel that ko and Master complement each other in many ways, and in some respects Master's feelings are much deeper.
As for how to determine that she is the other half you've been waiting for all along, the one who can live with you in equal harmony and grow old together with white hair—since you may not be able to determine what you want, I think you should at least know what you don't want. The small things reveal a person most truly. Sigh! Just keep using me as a specimen.
In the preliminary stage, anyone who meets one of the following conditions: del:
1 Uses foul three-character curses in conversation. (If anyone appreciates this type, suit yourself. I approve.)
2 Is cold to her own parents and siblings (if she can treat the parents who gave birth to her like that, then once "mission accomplished," what your fate will be can well be imagined)
3 Talks at length in front of you about some friend's shortcomings (who knows what she says about you in front of others)
4 Has a dressing table piled with cosmetics. (Exceptions for those who sell cosmetics)
5 A golden phoenix flown out of a chicken coop, (dressed in imposing luxury, boudoir a total mess.)
6 A commoner's princess, monthly salary 500, spending 5000.
7 ............ (add your own)
These "strengths" have already become life habits in some ladies, and are easy to observe. Search for the destined one in the optimized list.
What does Master Rushi think? Master Rushi can also combine it with his own experience and write a BAT file—run it once and won't that settle it? ^_^

Not bad, you really could write a blind-date batch file! That would make blind dates much simpler...

Choosing a girl really is very important. I think a good girl should be gentle and kind, courteous in manner, plain and natural, and not vain. Only a girl like that can live an ordinary life and share hardship and sweetness together. And what can move girls like these is not gifts, flowers, or sweet talk, but your appreciation of her, your attentiveness, and your care.
Never choose a girl who likes playing mahjong; in the future she may have no time to look after the family. It's best to be careful with girls who are overly concerned with clothes and appearance or wear heavy makeup. They are often either too narcissistic or lacking confidence in themselves, and after marriage they'll probably strictly examine every woman you interact with.

Thank you, Teacher Mo, for your guidance. It really has benefited us juniors greatly!
Wishing you
a Happy Spring Festival!

The following is quoted from mys's post at 2004-1-23 15:36:51:
Choosing a girl really is very important. I think a good girl should be gentle and kind, courteous in manner, plain and natural, and not vain. Only a girl like that can live an ordinary life and share hardship and sweetness together. And what can move girls like these is not gifts, flowers, or sweet talk, but your appreciation of her, your attentiveness, and your care.
Never choose a girl who likes playing mahjong; in the future she may have no time to look after the family. It's best to be careful with girls who are overly concerned with clothes and appearance or wear heavy makeup. They are often either too narcissistic or lacking confidence in themselves, and after marriage they'll probably strictly examine every woman you interact with.

What Teacher Mo said is really good. DD here learned a few more things again, but these days girls who are "gentle and kind, courteous in manner, plain and natural, and not vain" really are hard to find......

The following is quoted from tdj's post at 2004-1-20 23:31:02:
I really don't want to see a Living Buddha ko come out of the forum moderators.

That won't happen now, hehe...
Thanks everyone for your concern.
But from now on I'll be spending much less time on the forum.
There's not enough time.
I used to be an idle person, now I've turned into a very busy one...

Didn't KO already get married and have a kid???? I'm collapsing~~~~~~~~~

The following is quoted from langhua's post at 2004-3-12 17:41:15:
Didn't KO already get married and have a kid???? I'm collapsing~~~~~~~~~

Are you trying to kill me, Langhua???
When did I ever tell you I got married? And had a kid??
Now I'm the one who's totally dizzy.....
Collapse～～～～～～～～～～

The following is quoted from ko20010214's post at 2004-3-10 8:11:48:

The following is quoted from tdj's post at 2004-1-20 23:31:02:
I really don't want to see a Living Buddha ko come out of the forum moderators.
 

That won't happen now, hehe...
Thanks everyone for your concern.
But from now on I'll be spending much less time on the forum.
There's not enough time.
I used to be an idle person, now I've turned into a very busy one...

What do you think yourself, did you take a liking to her??

Floor31　tdj	Posted 2004-01-22 00:00
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*The following is quoted from Master Rushi's post at 2004-1-21 22:20:18:* Hehe~ tdj praises me too much. I just chatted a bit with Fang Shao on MSn. On this kind of question, I'm generally rather emotional about it... not that much analysis... how should I put it? Just as I said to KO, winning a girl's favorable impression or even admiration is actually not that hard. The hard part is how you determine that she is the other half you've been waiting for all along, the one who can live with you in equal harmony and grow old together with white hair! This, ah, is like Zen. It's like a fish drinking water—whether it's warm or cold, only it knows. It can be understood but not put into words. So........................... hehe~ Too much praise? Definitely not. I have never liked unprincipled flattery. Wasn't I just as blunt when talking about ko's shortcomings? I feel that ko and Master complement each other in many ways, and in some respects Master's feelings are much deeper. As for how to determine that she is the other half you've been waiting for all along, the one who can live with you in equal harmony and grow old together with white hair—since you may not be able to determine what you want, I think you should at least know what you don't want. The small things reveal a person most truly. Sigh! Just keep using me as a specimen. In the preliminary stage, anyone who meets one of the following conditions: del: 1 Uses foul three-character curses in conversation. (If anyone appreciates this type, suit yourself. I approve.) 2 Is cold to her own parents and siblings (if she can treat the parents who gave birth to her like that, then once "mission accomplished," what your fate will be can well be imagined) 3 Talks at length in front of you about some friend's shortcomings (who knows what she says about you in front of others) 4 Has a dressing table piled with cosmetics. (Exceptions for those who sell cosmetics) 5 A golden phoenix flown out of a chicken coop, (dressed in imposing luxury, boudoir a total mess.) 6 A commoner's princess, monthly salary 500, spending 5000. 7 ............ (add your own) These "strengths" have already become life habits in some ladies, and are easy to observe. Search for the destined one in the optimized list. What does Master Rushi think? Master Rushi can also combine it with his own experience and write a BAT file—run it once and won't that settle it? ^_^

Floor32　Lydong	Posted 2004-01-23 00:00
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Not bad, you really could write a blind-date batch file! That would make blind dates much simpler...

Floor33　MYS	Posted 2004-01-23 00:00
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Choosing a girl really is very important. I think a good girl should be gentle and kind, courteous in manner, plain and natural, and not vain. Only a girl like that can live an ordinary life and share hardship and sweetness together. And what can move girls like these is not gifts, flowers, or sweet talk, but your appreciation of her, your attentiveness, and your care. Never choose a girl who likes playing mahjong; in the future she may have no time to look after the family. It's best to be careful with girls who are overly concerned with clothes and appearance or wear heavy makeup. They are often either too narcissistic or lacking confidence in themselves, and after marriage they'll probably strictly examine every woman you interact with.

Floor34　Lydong	Posted 2004-01-23 00:00
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Thank you, Teacher Mo, for your guidance. It really has benefited us juniors greatly! Wishing you a Happy Spring Festival!

Floor35　Dark-Destroy	Posted 2004-01-23 00:00
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*The following is quoted from mys's post at 2004-1-23 15:36:51:* Choosing a girl really is very important. I think a good girl should be gentle and kind, courteous in manner, plain and natural, and not vain. Only a girl like that can live an ordinary life and share hardship and sweetness together. And what can move girls like these is not gifts, flowers, or sweet talk, but your appreciation of her, your attentiveness, and your care. Never choose a girl who likes playing mahjong; in the future she may have no time to look after the family. It's best to be careful with girls who are overly concerned with clothes and appearance or wear heavy makeup. They are often either too narcissistic or lacking confidence in themselves, and after marriage they'll probably strictly examine every woman you interact with. What Teacher Mo said is really good. DD here learned a few more things again, but these days girls who are "gentle and kind, courteous in manner, plain and natural, and not vain" really are hard to find......

Floor36　ko20010214	Posted 2004-03-10 00:00
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*The following is quoted from tdj's post at 2004-1-20 23:31:02:* I really don't want to see a Living Buddha ko come out of the forum moderators. That won't happen now, hehe... Thanks everyone for your concern. But from now on I'll be spending much less time on the forum. There's not enough time. I used to be an idle person, now I've turned into a very busy one...

Floor37　langhua	Posted 2004-03-12 00:00
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Didn't KO already get married and have a kid???? I'm collapsing~~~~~~~~~

Floor38　kickout	Posted 2004-03-16 00:00
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*The following is quoted from langhua's post at 2004-3-12 17:41:15:* Didn't KO already get married and have a kid???? I'm collapsing~~~~~~~~~ Are you trying to kill me, Langhua??? When did I ever tell you I got married? And had a kid?? Now I'm the one who's totally dizzy..... Collapse～～～～～～～～～～

Floor39　tdj	Posted 2004-04-06 00:00
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*The following is quoted from ko20010214's post at 2004-3-10 8:11:48:* *The following is quoted from tdj's post at 2004-1-20 23:31:02:* I really don't want to see a Living Buddha ko come out of the forum moderators.   That won't happen now, hehe... Thanks everyone for your concern. But from now on I'll be spending much less time on the forum. There's not enough time. I used to be an idle person, now I've turned into a very busy one...

Floor40　wphs0326	Posted 2004-04-06 00:00
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What do you think yourself, did you take a liking to her??