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mys really is awesome!!

Like I said, a long illness makes a good doctor—after failing enough times, you naturally pick up some insights.

Hehe. mys really can talk in sets when it comes to experience!!!!!!!!

When will Rushi also talk a bit about this kind of experience? Rushi's level is far above mine.

Thanks, thanks!
That's really one whole set after another. Hehe...
Thanks!

The following is quoted from mys's post at 2004-1-11 20:44:41:
When will Rushi also talk a bit about this kind of experience? Rushi's level is far above mine.

Hehe. Let's all ask mys to start a love advice lecture, and Rushi can come beat the drum from the sidelines too....
Best to use a question-and-answer format..............

The master really is formidable—one sentence and he slipped back behind the scenes again.
I thought of one more thing today: KO should also find a way to make himself more interesting. For example, I'm pigeon-toed, and the big toe on my left foot always sticks upward, so my socks wear through there very quickly. That's why I always buy two pairs of the same socks, so I can mix them into three pairs to wear. Sometimes when I'm in a hurry, I switch the left sock to the right foot, and the right sock to the left foot...

to: moderator mys
Please stay calm, you must stay calm, and whatever you do, don't fall for Rushi's trap. Actually, you have the right to remain silent. If you give up that right.... Once your honored wife logs onto the site someday, all of this will become courtroom evidence.... When that time comes, they won't even need to look for material to deal with you. Sigh... ... the consequences are too dreadful to imagine!!!
Don't say I didn't warn you in advance (so sour)!

tdj means well, but I'm not worried about that at all.

Failed again...

The following is quoted from ko20010214's post at 2004-1-20 12:59:13:
Failed again...

ko:
The chatter I posted before doesn't count, it was just a joke. But really, I don't even know what to say about you. Sigh...!
In my heart I've always firmly believed that a man who truly loves DOS must first be a man with determination and persistence, and second, a man who is not easily pushed around by others and does not easily admit defeat.
I don't know what state ko is in right now, but the two names Fang Shao and Fang Hen Shao are very familiar to me. I've already changed computers twice, and the dos help tutorial you made is still on my hard drive. So let me give you two lines: "Do not worry that ahead on your road you will have no beauty who knows you; under heaven, who is there that does not know you?"
Also, let me give you a little advice. First, reposition your own image for yourself and make an objective evaluation of yourself in your heart. Also line up the outside world's evaluation of you. Once you've thought all that through, it becomes very easy to play to your strengths and avoid your weaknesses. And remember this above all: the most important thing for a man is to have strong conviction and bearing. Don't lose that, because if you do, then as a man, no matter how good you are in other respects, you're still worthless.
A girl in love and a girl after marriage are different. I think calling often to check in, buying some little snacks your girlfriend likes, remembering to bring two handkerchiefs as seat cushions when you go out on a date—these are much better than giving one expensive gift. What a girl in love needs most is thoughtfulness, care, and a sense of security.
Also, throw away the "dull and shy" advantages. If you don't express yourself, nobody is going to inspect what strengths you have. Even companies advertise. You should figure out what kind of ideal girl suits you and shares your outlook, then pursue her relentlessly (with some strategy). Remember Hou Dejian has a lyric: "Only after 30 do you understand, if there's someone you should love, go ahead and love her." But if you only understand it by then, it'll be too late. Work for it a little and win happiness for the second half of your life—isn't it worth it? What do you stand to lose?
Sigh! Even under police interrogation I might not confess this much. I wrote this for you after asking a woman's opinion. Keep it up!!!
I really don't want to see a Living Buddha ko come out of the forum moderators.

thank u !

A lot of girls, after meeting me, say "no feeling."
I really don't know what "feeling" means.
I'm not tall, not handsome, so I can't make people fall in love at first sight.
Feeling? I can't give people room for fantasy.
I've always felt that love is a kind of fantasy.
If you can't give people fantasy, then it's over.

Just at this moment, you don't really have any opinions,
just at this moment, you still happen to like dreaming,
just at this moment, I still happen to have a few opinions,
I want to find someone to dream together with.

When will I be able to find someone who can dream together with me?

tdj, I really thank you. Not just for your advice, hehe... mainly because you still kept my dos help tutorial.
ありがとう（a-ri-ga-to）!

ko:
As for the tutorial, it should be me thanking you instead, and at the same time I'd also like to thank you for providing and recommending so much good software.

As for "a lot of girls, after meeting me, say 'no feeling'," I think that's just because you haven't found the feeling yet, and haven't entered the role.
Let me tell you, there was once a guy who wasn't tall, wasn't handsome either, didn't have much money in his pocket, and even had quite a lot of "youth beans" on his face. This guy knew he had these characteristics, yet he still fancied himself the Frog Prince and specialized in eating all kinds of swans. After sampling all kinds of swans, he finally discovered that a gentle ugly duckling was the most real, and then fell in love with an ugly duckling. Now this guy has always been living very happily and blissfully.
When dealing with girls, if in the first contact you can leave the other side with the impression that you're sincere, straightforward, and trustworthy, that's a good beginning. "Mission accomplished" is something for later.
As for educating you, ko, that's really exaggerating things. Just treat it as advice from a friend. If you don't mind, I'll use only the information online to help summarize you (only the shortcomings).
Started with computers relatively early, and has made relatively notable achievements. (Family relatively well-off, little contact with the lower levels of society, fewer hardships and little tempering, so short-term and long-term goals in life are easily blurred.)
Posts contain lots of information, and cover a huge range of types. (Too much time spent in the virtual world, very strong comprehension ability, but relatively poor verbal ability. Introverted and solitary personality, few friends in the real world, and even if there are some, they often are birds of a feather and not complementary.)
Time on the site 0:54:57 (a typical night owl, sleeps late and gets up late, lacks exercise. Irregular life, poor self-care ability, often with dark circles under the eyes. Physical condition average or rather poor.)
Do you think my analysis is right?
If I guessed right, then as long as you change your living habits a little and enrich your life content a bit—for example climbing mountains, photography, ball sports, getting some exposure to life at the lower levels of society, working part-time and doing some physical labor, etc.—it'll be easy to find the feeling. Consulting a somewhat more mature woman is also a good method.
Actually, we still can't reach the optimism, generosity, and open-mindedness of moderator mys for now. In this respect, the one I admire most is Rushi. I feel that he is experiencing and trying things in all areas, and looking back it seems wonderful. You might as well ask him for advice. It feels like a good man is a piece of alloy steel containing all kinds of beneficial impurities, not a piece of 24k pure gold.

Your analytical ability is very strong, hehe...
Maybe you're right. Maybe I really should walk out of the Internet. Like the song says, "go downstairs and fall in love."

Go Downstairs and Fall in Love

(O.S)
All these years, I've been busy, drifting, with no fixed place to live
I have been confused, even lost
I began to doubt whether everything I possessed
was what I originally persisted in and dreamed of
So I kept my empty body
wandering on, wandering on to some unfamiliar places
to look for something, I don't know what

But one early morning in 2003
I suddenly heard myself say to myself

Don't be afraid, don't cry, be brave, relax
Always believe that the self who loves to sing
will be waiting for me at a happy exit

The autumn and winter of 2003 were happy
I cherish the happiness before my eyes

No matter what happens to me later, I still want to thank you. To feel understood—warmth on the Internet is still warmth too.

Hehe~ tdj praises me too much. I just chatted a bit with Fang Shao on MSn. On this kind of question, I'm generally rather emotional about it... not that much analysis... how should I put it? Just as I said to KO, winning a girl's favorable impression or even admiration is actually not that hard. The hard part is how you determine that she is the other half you've been waiting for all along, the one who can live with you in equal harmony and grow old together with white hair!
This, ah, is like Zen. It's like a fish drinking water—whether it's warm or cold, only it knows. It can be understood but not put into words. So........................... hehe~