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If you love someone too much, you'll be led around by the nose by him. A tiny little thing can throw you completely into confusion, as if struck by a magic wand, totally unable to control yourself. From then on, you no longer have your own thoughts, no longer have your own joys, anger, sorrow, or happiness. You make him your center. When you're with him, he is the whole world; when you can't be with him, the world is him.

If you love someone too much, you'll tolerate him without principles. Little by little, he'll get used to that kind of indulgence, ignore what you do for him, and may even start to feel annoyed by it.

If you love someone too much, you're no different from a candle, burning yourself without a second thought, only to get a moment of light and warmth. When the candle burns out, you have nothing left. But he's only a flashlight: he can keep putting in new batteries and stay full of energy forever.

If you love someone too much, he'll grow used to your kindness and forget that he should give something too, forget that you also need the same return in kind---he'll be completely spoiled by you.

Lovely women, don't love someone so much that you completely forget yourself. Give him room to breathe, and leave yourself some room too. So when you love someone, don't love him to the full ten points; eight points is enough. Keep the remaining two points to love yourself. A smart woman knows how to love herself.

Don't love someone too much; it does you no good (the post above already made that clear...)
And it does him no good either (give him room to breathe, leave him some space, otherwise he really will get tired of it)

There's nothing wrong with loving someone, but if your love makes the other person feel very unfree, then that's not good

But in reality it's very hard to do that.

Xiao Ling'er must be seventeen already, right? That's exactly the age for dreaming of loving and being loved.

The following is quoted from 小灵儿 on 2003-4-28 12:25:17:
But in reality it's very hard to do that.

That is true, I also think it's not easy to do

The following is quoted from 如是大师 on 2003-4-28 12:50:31:
Xiao Ling'er must be seventeen already, right? That's exactly the age for dreaming of loving and being loved.

The age for dreaming of loving and being loved should be sixteen.

Believe in natural philosophy; there's nothing wrong with loving someone, just don't let other factors interfere lately.

No, there is no absolute love in this world.

Have you read the book “The Naked Ape”? Humans are really just hairless monkeys; monkey nature is fickle, led by desire.

"Love~" this post isn't suitable for me to read~
I'm out~~~~~~~~

It's most suitable for Langhua to read, so just read it.

Nature controls everything on earth; all events happen according to time, including the love invented by humans!

Loneliness dances with the wind

Unaware of the sorrow of the beauty

Ten years of foolish devotion, tears and wine like the surging waters of the Yellow River

Candles and cups crossing, zither and fine wine, a beauty by your side

Love gone wrong at the road's end, helpless before worldly people with feelings

The following is quoted from 小灵儿 on 2003-4-28 17:48:20:
Loneliness dances with the wind

Unaware of the sorrow of the beauty

Ten years of foolish devotion, tears and wine like the surging waters of the Yellow River

Candles and cups crossing  zither and fine wine, a beauty by your side

Love gone wrong at the road's end  helpless before worldly people with feelings

Explain it a bit